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I need help guys.

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by JeanCarl88, Jul 12, 2019.

  1. JeanCarl88

    JeanCarl88 Fapstronaut

    Hello everybody. I'm 23 years old,male,heterosexual and I suffer from DE. Since I started having sex when I was 18, I've been living with this problem. I can get erection most of the times, but I struggle to mantain them. I've been visited by an andrologyst and the problem isn't fisiological. I've been even to a psychologist, but it didn't really help, and as the time passes, it gets worse. The fact is that my libido is like really low. I hardly ever get to come when I have sex, and often only thinking about fantasies of mine. I don't know if I'm addicted to pornography honestly. It's masturbation in general, even if no porn is involved, that I can't stop. It's like the only way for me to have sexual pleasure. Anyone whit a siimilar situation? I don't know what to do. Do you think rebooting can help me as well? I accept any suggestion.
     
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  2. Tiger1

    Tiger1 Fapstronaut

    Your junk I'm thinking loss some sensitive due to J.O alot...I say that if you abstain as long as it takes you junk should be more sensitive, as well use lube and lightly stroke if you do have an urge to J.O
     
  3. llortaton

    llortaton Fapstronaut

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    Well, the reason is masturbation, obviously. Get a long streak, and forget about fapping and sex, for the next few months. You're in for a long journey. :D
     
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  4. sky47

    sky47 Fapstronaut

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    it's a common problem my friend but it's a red flag you need to solve
    yes PMO and even daily and heavily fapping with alot of grip pressure can destroy and desensitze your nerve ending in the penis
    i suggest the you go on hard mode ( not even sex ) al least 2 weeks and keep the no fapping and see the results meanwhile using vitamin E cream for the penis but please apply it fast and dress so you wont relapse
    best wishes
     
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  5. Hello and welcome! :)

    We are glad to have you as a part of our community. Here are some quick links to get you started.

    Getting Started Guide | How to Use the NoFap Forums | Panic Button |Day Counter | Rebooting Resources|Forum Rules | Glossary

    If you wish to keep a journal of your progress you can do so in the appropriate section found here

    There are plenty of wonderful, friendly and knowledgeable people here to help you along on your journey to a life free of PMO. I wish you nothing but the best!
     
  6. Hey & Welcome to NoFap Community! :)

    You are in the right place for recovery here. We are so glad to have you with us to beat this addiction together.

    You can go read some Success Stories in the "Success Stories" section to learn more about the benefits of NoFap , get useful tips and ideas to help you in the reboot.

    If you have any question about rebooting, you can ask it in the "Rebooting" section.


    And I would recommend you to make your own journal in the "Reboot logs" corresponding to your gender & age to track your everyday progress.
    You can also join challenges in the "Events & Challenges" section, to keep yourself motivated and focused.




    You may start by checking the links below:
    Learn more about Rebooting.
    Forum Usage Guide.
    List of Rebooting Ressources.
    Glossary of terms used in NoFap community.





    Best of luck to you in your journey!





    -The Winner
     
  7. Hi @JeanCarl88, all the best to you! If you want to join 'The Matrix' challenge click here ---> 'The Matrix' <---
     

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