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I need help guys

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by meek mill 97, Mar 3, 2020.

  1. meek mill 97

    meek mill 97 Fapstronaut

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    So, I've started my NoFap journey 4 months ago and I never reached 90 days.
    My most important record was 38 days that I failed few days ago. I started NoFap because I heard it has a lot of benefits for skin and hair and during my journey I have been feeling unstoppable and wiht much more self care. Now since I failed I feal depressed and I fapped 4 in 3 days
    Any tips guys? I need your help
     
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  2. Muphy

    Muphy Fapstronaut

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    there can be many tips but I would say that until you decide that you you have to get rid of this, you will not be able to get out of this.

    It took me almost 1 year to react my first 90 day streak.. but after that I understood the process.. how to control my mind.. then I started realizing that it was so easy to get out of this.. but in the process it appeared so hard that I thought I'll never be able to make out of it.

    It will take time and patience..
    I see that this is your first post. I have some suggestions for you.
    One is start writing a journal and update daily. whenever you feel like you are diverting away, write in the journal.
    Another thing is start spending time in some physical workouts like sports or gym.
    Third thing is make it a habit of sleeping before 10:30pm as I have observed that whenever I wake up till late night , I have nothing to do but to watch porn.

    Today is your Day 0.
    Always keep in mind that you are not going to see this day again.
    you are out of it for forever. Make this streak as your longest streak. which is going to break every other streak.

    Alll the best brother
     
  3. IGY

    IGY Fapstronaut
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    I do not think those are strong enough reasons to resist sexual self gratification. So, motivation is gonna be an issue IMO.
     
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  4. meek mill 97

    meek mill 97 Fapstronaut

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    Thanks man I appreciate it a lot
     
  5. Kligor

    Kligor Fapstronaut

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    Hi buddy and welcome to forum!
    Streak of 38 days are great!If you did it once you can did it again and even higher.
    About benefits,there are to much benefits,i mostly like that almost never tired and almost always positive behavior.
    Remember that PMO never helped anyone,it just can drain you and make you weak.
    Go to gym,go take a walk,try to spend your time with friends or family,do cold showers.
    When urges appears just say "I doing nofap,it is normal for urges to appears,don't feed urges just let them to disappear".
     
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  6. meek mill 97

    meek mill 97 Fapstronaut

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    I didn't say that I started NoFap because I was not enjoying my life no more and my dopamine level was very high so I couldn't be motivated to anything
    I have been working out in the gym for 4 years and in these 38 days I was feeling more stronger and motivated than I ever been. But the real reason cause I started no fa was hair loss. I have a lot of hair loss on temples but this is not alopecia or something else, I have discovered the it depends about fapping every day and watching porn, in these 38 days I had a lot of improvements and my hair line was almost restored
     
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  7. meek mill 97

    meek mill 97 Fapstronaut

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    Thanks dude
     
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