I need help! I'm becoming gay no doubt

Discussion in 'Problematic Sexual Behavior' started by Dr Kool-Aid, Mar 16, 2019.

  1. Dr Kool-Aid

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    So guys I have been dealing hocd again and today I had a wet dream at first I thought this for sure meant I was straight but as I examined the dream the pornstar who I nutted off too in the dream had a penis in fact a massive boner and that was what I was looking at the weirdest part is I've seen shemale pictures but never had addiction shemale in pornography it self and I did have an attraction toward the male genitalia but I thought that was caused by pornography or at least I hope it was and I'm dealing with hocd ...... yah I know dreams mean nothing but that didn't make sense am i becoming gay because I don't want too this can't be happening I'm sure I was looking at that dick in the dream that doesn't make sense am i really becoming gay but how I can't do this anymore myself I've never done that before all previous wet dreams were towards women only and that some it atleast I think they were if this pls guys help this doesn't make sense I can't becoming gay I want to spend my life with a women I want to marry women have a family I've never been attracted to men this can't be real and plus my hocd at this particular moment seems to be focused on a particular dude saying that I like him why why why why why why why why me........ why
     
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  2. Dr Kool-Aid

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    I seriously need help like I need replies now you guys don't understand !!!!!
     
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    Guys at first I was sure I wants to bisexual or gay I was positive it was hocd but this seriously king me think im bi or maybe evendors gay!?!?
     
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  4. Dr Kool-Aid

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    GUYS PLS REPLY I DON'T WANT TO BE THE FREAK CASE OF A RANDOM STRAIGHT KID WHO SUDDENLY TURNED GAY
     
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    And to make matters worst all the women I was attracted to earlier this year and last school year I still find attractive but don't have that boner I would get for them when I looked at them
     
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  6. Dr Kool-Aid

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    This can't be real
     
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    Guys I'm too afriad to sleep now I'm staying up for thr night that's it i cant do this
     
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  8. Dr Kool-Aid

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    Pls guys reply everyone reply you need to see this now save me pray for me
     
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  9. Take a deep breath. You were noticing a thing in your dream, a thing. You didn't say anything about being attracted to men. If you're not attracted to men or want to have a relationship with one, then you're not gay.
    Nothing wrong with being gay but don't worry your mind over something that you don't need to focus on now. Take care of what is wrong and everything will sort itself out in time.
     
  10. Dr Kool-Aid

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    Bro I've been dealing with this for too long ocd for the past month and now a nocturnal emission towards a women with a dick I can't sleep I want help now I need a therapist I've been dealing with this for too long I want to know what's happening
     
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  11. The Wrestler

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    @Dr Kool-Aid
    I could have written my own thing, but he said it all. A thing in a dream is not necessarily your sexual preference. And if it turn out that it is, you can be gay and still be ok. You are ok.
     
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    Actually I can't I don't like men and don't want to be with one either
     
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    You're freaking out about it and that is actually making it worse. Stop looking at it with all the judgement and see it for what it is: a dream, or a series of dreams. You climaxed during a sex dream (normal) and you climaxed when the woman had a penis (still withing the realm of normality).
    And if you do not want to be with a man, then what are you worrying about? This dream can not and will not change your sexual preference.
     
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  15. Dr Kool-Aid

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    That's okay but I still don't think I can sleep
     
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  16. Dr Kool-Aid

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    I'm tired of fighting intrusive thought day after day I'm tired of waking up with anxiety I'm tired of it all
     
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  17. The Wrestler

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    Here's a vid on wet dreams:
     
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    She talks about some of the things you're going through
     
  19. Dr Kool-Aid

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    I want to be able to sleep comforeally again not this
     
  20. The Wrestler

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    Having a wet dream about something you wouldn't consciously like is, actually, a relatively common occurence for guys. It does not define who you are or what you prefer
     
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