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I need help(maybe trigger warnings in idk beware)

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by ifindoubt, Jul 26, 2019.

  1. ifindoubt

    ifindoubt Fapstronaut

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    Hey guys, I am a new user here, however, NoFap is not a new thing for me.

    In fact, I remember a time when I could have normal attractions to the opposite gender and was not porn obsessed. i also remember when I could control my PMO urges.

    However, this all changed, when my former crush broke me. Once, I confessed my feelings to my crush, she gave me a hug and her number. After a few days, I decide to talk to her a little, and then text her. She proceeds to tell me that it will be difficult because she is busy. This is not what broke me. After that she tells me she has a boyfriend on text.

    This made me sad emotionally because I could accept the fact that she had a boyfriend, but the fact she did not tell it to my face made me mad. I am better now in that regard, in fact, I am not very obsessed with her anymore, but now I am hooked on PMO, and unlike before, I cannot stop myself, save for a few days I did not do PMO.

    Any advice to overcoming PMO, as well as fetishes?
     
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  3. Shaktiman760

    Shaktiman760 Fapstronaut

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    bro now you have a reason to quit because she lie in front of you don't need to worry about it now you can say you are on a track a proper track my best wishes with you
     
  4. The punisher7

    The punisher7 New Fapstronaut

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    welcome bro
    I want to say that what happened to you ,, happens to everyone
    you have to improve your self ,,, become a better version and seek your goals + there are millions of other girls around
    I'm new to this community and i will post my introduction very soon
    stay motivated
     
  5. ifindoubt

    ifindoubt Fapstronaut

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    I am sorry, I do not understand? But regardless, thanks for the encouragement
     
  6. Shaktiman760

    Shaktiman760 Fapstronaut

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    she dose not care about you how would you feel after the incident you are a worrier remember this thing start a life of greatness
     
  7. ifindoubt

    ifindoubt Fapstronaut

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    Thank you for your encouraging message, but, to be frank, my main goal is not really to get other girls(due to past experience), but it is, like you stated, be a better version of myself, and hopefully, improve my studies as well as creativity and problem solving skills
     

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