I need help

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by collard177, May 2, 2020.

  1. collard177

    collard177 Fapstronaut

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    decided this is that last time im gonna watch porn due to not getting aroused when i was with my gf and havent watched porn for 5 days now. ive decided im not going back to porn and have read that i shouldnt even masturbate. however, im seeing my gf in 3 weeks and we're probably going to do something. should i avoid ejaculating or should i let it happen since its with a physical person. she doesnt know about my problem
     
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  2. Mr. Catwalk Runway

    Mr. Catwalk Runway Fapstronaut

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    I would try to hold back if you can manage the benefits are worth it but don't get down on yourself if you don't.

    I mean I shouldn't say get down on yourself if you fap either but I don't see how being with her is a relapse.

    Refraining from an O with her would definitely aid you I would imagine though whereas an ejaculation wouldn't really boost your progress.

    Edit: Mantak Chia might say you can have an O without an ejaculation? I for one can be satisfied without thinking of an O when I am intimate with a partner but this is about what you want to do.
     
  3. collard177

    collard177 Fapstronaut

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    So the best thing to do is not O. Isn't there a difference between PMO and O with a partner or should I abstain from it all together?
     

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