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Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by OnGod, Jul 29, 2020.

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  1. Jul 29, 2020 #1
    OnGod

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    I’m 22 years old and I’ve been struggling with pmo all my life. When I’m alone I masturbate at least 4-5 times daily but when I’m not alone I still find time to masturbate on a daily basis and I had no problem with my hard on until recently I started noticing I don’t get hard enough to penetrate a girl but i still get hard enough to masturbate. I’m really scared and I need help. My girlfriend is really worried and I am too. I really need help, what do I do ?
     
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  2. Jul 30, 2020 #2
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    Have you tried 3 or 7 days not watching porn and not masturbating, or even 1 day as the first step?

    You say you still manage to masturbate despite not being alone/ having a good day, so maybe it has become a routine for you to do it at night and keeping all electronics far away from your bed at evening would help?!
     
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  3. Jul 30, 2020 #3
    OnGod

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    Thanks for your response. This is the third day I’ve stopped MO But when I get high, I still preview porn (I don’t watch) just to get control of myself. I’ve made the decision to stop but I’ve always created this happy moment for me through pmo that works against all the bad things that happens to me in this world. I appreciate your response once again. I look forward to your reply. @maybethereisfutureforme
     
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  4. Jul 30, 2020 #4
    OnGod

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    And if It matters I still get hard on when I watch simple people kiss (no hardcore stuff) not just hard to penetrate
     
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  5. Jul 31, 2020 #5
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    I'm not any better bro but saying to yourself that porn makes you happy (the linking porn to pleasure and seeing it as a light in a dark place) will never allow you to leave it.
    Are you sure it's not dark exactly because of porn?!
    Looking at it (realizing and reminding) as a big disadvantage for you personally is the priority in my experience.

    Correct me if I'm wrong but I think you have chained habits, getting high is the first habit followed by the second which is watching porn.
    So not engaging in the first habit might be the solution?!
     
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  6. Jul 31, 2020 #6
    OnGod

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    I’d try that ASAP
    Are you feeling better yourself?
     
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  7. Jul 31, 2020 #7
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    I reach 3 days in a few hours.
    To be honest right now I came across a trigger. And I'm struggling now.
    Thanks for asking!
     
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