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I need help..

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Quitterrr, Aug 18, 2020.

  1. Quitterrr

    Quitterrr Fapstronaut

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    I still keep getting urges and it's been about 6 months, I've read somewhere that those who like porn but try to quit it can go to great heights but still fail (it's true as I've seen someone here relapse after 3 years, I hate porn, it almost ruined my life, I really just want to stop thinking about it. Having a good time?? Porn (just me thinking of the word makes my stomach knot) I just want to forget it and move on, but idk how, please I need help as I feel like I'm going to relapse (I think that deep down I love porn, but I hate it cuz of what it's done to me)
     
  2. Maybe that's your issue. If you're still uncertain about quitting or if you have somewhat positive feelings for porn, you'll get urges. Of course, it's easier said than done. Have you thought about your future? Do you see yourself watching porn? Do you perhaps feel anxious or dislike the prospect of never watching it again?

    Food for thought. I don't know exactly what you're going through.
     
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  3. Osem

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    Yeah Yeah continue to believe this way and you will never overcome your addiction, your belief is holding you back !
    you believing that you like porn and people how try to quit it will never be able to achieve that, so you will never stop your addiction and if you try it will be so hard in a way that impossible !

    Good luck bro !
     
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  4. thikk

    thikk Fapstronaut

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    I have to agree with the above comments.
    1) Motivation for quiting is key. People who have a strong reason for quiting (and likely don't feel like they like p deep inside) have a higher chance to stay clean.
    2) You really need to move on with life especially after doing 3+ months. You need to start fixing relationships, have normal sex, have goals and keep yourself busy etc. If you do this then you tend to realise the good part of life and focus on those good habits. If you lack focus or have no social life you are simply going to come back to pmo because you have not replaced it with anything else and it's still active in your mind. Also, addictions stay with people for ages. A recovered alcoholic may not safely indulge in alcohol even years after recovery. Caution has to be practiced because it is a slippery slope. So find other things to focus on and move on from pmo and nofap!
     
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  5. Quitterrr

    Quitterrr Fapstronaut

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    Thank you all guys! But I hate the fact that whenever I say I still get urges they be like "have sex".. aight my 14 yr old ass will seduce a grown woman.. but still thank you all this helped me alot, besides today was the first day I got a 100% morning wood!
     
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  6. Whenever people tell you to have sex, try to interpret it as "go date someone". You're young, but not too young to date girls your age. You don't need to have sex or even kiss them if you don't want to. The idea is letting go of P as your sexual identity, replacing it with real women instead.
     
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  7. thikk

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    Well said. And it links back to my point about moving on from pmo and nofap after successful reboot.
     
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