I need immediate help please help

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by ineedhelppleasehelpmerecover, Oct 28, 2019.

  1. I am 16 year old boy, who was said to have social anxiety and hyperactivity disorder by doctors but they were not able to cure me, I looked up for reasons myself realized that PMO is the enemy, I MO'ed heavily sometimes 3-4 times a day, now I am on my 9th day of NoFap ( started on 20th Oct ) but I haven't noticed any significant change. So now let me cut short as I might relapse, I have had girls stuck in my head and many sexual thoughts are coming in my head again and again, moreover now I've been thinking about sex more and more, I was looking for a highly qualified tutor for Physics and I saw a female tutor and now she is stuck in my head, I am making stories and fantasizing her, please help
     
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  2. Hello and welcome! :)

    We are glad to have you as a part of our community. Here are some quick links to get you started.

    Getting Started Guide | How to Use the NoFap Forums | Panic Button | Day Counter | Rebooting Resources | Forum Rules | Glossary

    If you wish to keep a journal of your progress you can do so in the appropriate section found here

    You can also take part in one of the many challenges available. It can be a tremendous help. Challenges

    Also, there are groups you can also join if you wish to do so. You can browse through them here. Groups

    There are plenty of wonderful, friendly and knowledgeable people here to help you along on your journey to a life free of PMO. I wish you nothing but the best!
     
  3. Thanks but can you please tell me what to do in this condition? I feel like MOing again
     
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  4. Of course you do. You trained your brain to except it 3-4 times a day. You’ve made it this far. The urges will pass. You have just got to keep yourself busy. You’re doing great! Stay strong and stay positive :)
     
  5. Thanks man, but I am not able to focus on studying, porn and sexual thoughts about fellow girls are all over my brain what to do how to focus?
     
  6. SREENII

    SREENII Fapstronaut

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    hey bro..my problem was even worst than you..my addiction started at the age of 4 in the kindergarten stage..at the age 4 itself i got super erections even in the classrooms fantasizing my teachers who were 20,30 or 40 years elder to me..when i was at 16 social anxiety developed in me..i gets addicted to the woman in my neighbouring house and developed "voyeurism"..i used to spend my whole day in my room peeping through my windows into the neighbouring house to see her all the time and masturbated 4 to 5 times everyday agressively..i struggled in my studies during that time..coz when i open a textbook to read it..suddenly those fantasy thoughts defeat my mind..when i was 17 i got an internet connection at my home which worsened the situation..late night porn watching and aggressive masturbation added fuel to my anxiety, depression and health problems..when i was 19 (doing my engineering degree) one night i went outside my house for some cold air..i heard a erotic screaming sound from my neighbourhood..when i looked there i saw my neighbours doing hardcore sex inside their home..i could see the visuals semiclearly through their curtainless glass window..that really aroused me..in the following months after my family goes to sleep i used to wnt out of my house like a thief for hearing the erotic screams and to masturbate in that fantasy world..my problematic behaviour created severe changes in my behaviour pattern..it made me rough,depressed and a coward..then after some years at the age of 21 i realised that i've sex addiction..after this realisation i tried to control myself..now i'm on nofap at 23..now everything goes under my control..i'm no more addicted to masturbation, my neighbours or internet porn..."WHAT I WANT TO CONVEY THROUGH MY STORY IS THAT IF I CAN DO NOFAP AND WON..YOU CAN ALSO DO IT"..you can see me as your elder brother and can ask any doubts or tips related to "how to stop pmo"..we all are here to help you
     
  7. I have something similar state, I was shown porn at the age of 6 and have been thinking sexually of my teachers since then, how can I stop urges and stop thinking about it?
     
  8. SREENII

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    happy to help you my brother..do you've a telegram account..if so send your id..let's communicate and provide the essential tips from my life experience
     
  9. i am no where except here because i do not wanna get addicted again
     
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