I need to get rid of my foot fetish please help

Discussion in 'Problematic Sexual Behavior' started by Dioplleo_547, Jun 4, 2020.

  1. Dioplleo_547

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    Hello fellow fapstronauts I really need to get rid of my foot fetish unlike my other fetishes which were porn induced this one was not I had this fetish since I was a young boy. But now I need to get rid of it so that way I can find a good woman who I can start a family with and not have to worry about my foot fetish interfering with that. so if you have any tips or tricks to make it go away please let me know.
     
  2. Supination

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    Hey there! Foot fetish is the most common fetish out there and very normal. I also have a foot fetish! Since it's not porn induced i'm afraid you can't make it go away. Accept that it's part of you and own it like a man!
    I recommend you to change your attitude.. What makes you think that you can't find a women and start a family with this fetish?
    Understand that If a women really loves you she will be more than happy to fulfill your fetish. And if she thinks it's weird/Don't want to act on your fetish, Don't compromise! It means that you deserve better and she's definitely not the one.
     
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  3. LOL this is funny.

    A foot fetish is no big deal.
    Go get a girl with some nice feet, bro, you can buy her nice shoes and stuff and socks with straps and all of that. She will going to love it, for sure.

    If she likes to play a little "dominatrix" game, she will let you kiss her feet. And is like a win-win situation for both
     
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  4. Dioplleo_547

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    First of all I don't want to go around town asking random women to see their feet (that's just weird not to mention predatory) second of all I really don't like spending money like crazy (I'm not cheap I just prefer to save money) and 3rd of all I don't like the anything with dominatrix in it.
     
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  5. Duh
    I am sure you´re not, i didn´t say that.
    When i said: go get a girl - that means: go MEET a girl.

    I was kidding about the buying shoes to a dominatrix.

    You need to relax a bit and go about things with a little more humour, have some fun with yourself, laugh about it, dont be so stiff. I am sure that is not that big of a deal
     
  6. BRO, thats exactly what I was trying to say. Thats some nice advice right there.
    You nailed it
     
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  7. Dioplleo_547

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    So take myself less seriously gotcha
     
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  8. Good to hear such honesty! Helped me with some of my hang-ups about sex, and foot-fetishes.
     
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  9. fedmom

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    You can get rid of any fetish, doesn't make any difference if the fetish is porn induced or not.
     
  10. Thanks Fedmom, I have never heard anyone share on that before - how do you get rid of a fetish?
     
  11. AssaultHaund

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    I used some help with my NLP therapist.
    We mannaged to find the reason why i thought my self "less" from women.
    It appears that i had some kind of an event at age 4 , that caused me to thing that I am a "distorted" in terns of my sexuality.
    After a while we fixed it, and now I still I get some glances at girls feet. But as soon as it happens, I just look up for her eyes or other socially acceptable body parts.
    You still need to stay away from any online sexual contebt thought.
     
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    Sarah Tonin :D
     
  13. Dizzy Lotus

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    I disagree with this. Feet are not normally part of sexuality, and although it's completely fine if they are, demanding a woman to sexualise her feet seems unsound. Dioplleo might find a wife to love that does not mind her feet but would rather focus on her whole body, or on her breasts and vagina, as is more usual. That does not seem like a reason to not want to marry her, to me. [​IMG]
     
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  14. Supination

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    I think you got me wrong pal. Correct me if im wrong, You don't have a feet fetish right?
    Not sure if demanding is the right word, But eventually it's something you want to share with your partner. What i was trying to say is that some girls don't like getting their feet touched(which is totally reasonable), Some don't care and some really like it. There are plenty of fish in the sea. You have to understand that if someone has a feet fetish it's a huge part of his sexuality and a turn on hence if a girl doesn't like her feet touched it's alright , Just move on. Don't try to change her or even bother to demand. I mean, you can definitely stay but.. why? in my opinion it's nothing but compromising because that feeling that you're missing something big will always be there..
    Why would anyone want to spend the rest of his life with someone, knowing he can't explore his biggest turn on + knowing that he can definitely find a women to love that WILL LOVE to fulfill his fetish. If anything, That seems unsound.
     
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  15. Dizzy Lotus

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    I see what you mean, thanks. [​IMG] Indeed I do not have a foot fetish, and I frankly cannot imagine something like that being a huge part of your sexuality. But maybe you're right, in any case a foot fetish does not sound unhealthy, at least if it's not porn-induced. [​IMG] I'm not sure how many female fish actually appreciate foot fetishes, though. [​IMG]
     
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    "in any case a foot fetish does not sound unhealthy, at least if it's not porn-induced" - Exactly!
     
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  17. Codename47

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    I’m also in the same boat. Had one since before I can even remember it probably happened in really early childhood. It’s not my fault that I have one but can’t imagine a future where I can have a relationship with a woman because I’m not interested in her parts. Maybe it’s because I’ve never had a girlfriend before or had sex (and I’m freaking 22 years old) and the fact that I went to an all boys high school so I never had any contact with girls so I don’t feel comfortable around them. I’ve watched everyone around me get very attractive girlfriends and have sex with them for 9 years now meanwhile I’ve had to act like I’m not interested in sex and women because I have a foot fetish. It makes my blood boil and it’s gut wrenching. People at high school assumed I was gay because I wasn’t into breasts and lady parts. The whole assumption about foot fetishes being perverted and the people that have them being creepy weirdos doesn’t help things. Maybe NoFap for a very long time can get rid of the fetish?
     
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  18. I'm not sure! But it's obvious from the above thread that FF's are far more common than you might think. If that helps!
     
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  19. lollusk

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    first you have to know if this fetish is your natural fetish or porn induced, just so you know you've to go nofap for a few weeks to delete all this shit fetish porn induced, and then you'll see if is your fetish or not, in the end of nofap this fetish keep you hard same, so it's your nature in that case, i recommend you to avoid this thoughts and fantasy and release new sexual behaviors, like try to replace this foot fetish thoughts to vanilla sex thoughts, even if this thoughts dont make you so hard, eventually you will reinforce this brain cells in your dopamine system, and then it doesn't matter if you have or not foot fetish because now this cells are weak and you've replaced them by vanilla sexual thoughts, once you dont have the need to fantasy foot fetish it doesn't matter if you have or not, that's you have to do.
     
  20. Any fetish, is a virtual thing, it doesn't exist physically, you don't need to be scared of it, if you don't wanna do it, will the fetish come out of your mind and make you do it? Ofc not. Do not listen to those people tryna tell you, embrace the fetish, act on it. It's bs. If it causes you distress, obviously you don't want to act on it. Never try to gain pleasure from something that mentally hurts you. You just have to prove it to yourself that you are the commander in chief of your life. If you don't want the fetish, learn to ignore it first.
     
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