I need your help

I had days when I felt impotent. Actually, after those periods, i healed the best, even though at that time things seemed very bleak.

There's three things you need to remember

1. the brain will fool you to relapse to "check if it works". Do not give in to that. It works. If it doesn't work right now, give it time. Go to a doctor again if need be. Just dont "test your erections". Do you feel the need to "test if you can still walk" while you're sitting in a chair? No, cause you know it's ingrained in you, and so is erection.

2. sexual fantasizing is the same thing as porn. If you fantasize, even you don't watch porn or masturbate, you're still stressing your sex hormones/drive etc. Your drive needs a rest from stimulation and sexual fantasizing, porn, instagram models etc are all types of stimulation

3. if you relapse, do not, i repeat, do not masturbate again with half mast. Actually, do not ever work your penis at half mast (even during sex. just take a break and try later). You're training your sex organs to work like that and that is not good at all.

 

Just like ultrafabber said don't "test" it. That's just your mind playing tricks on you.
NoFap is a place to quit our sexual addictions and get ahead in life.
I won't say masturbation as a whole is bad but for many of us on here it is bad because we
keep doing it although we want to stop and it is taking away from our lives. It is totally possible
to quit.