I understand. This willingness to always want to improve ourselves Can indeed be both something that can contribute to your fulfillment but also something that can destroy you from within. Wanting more and more is a way of reminding us of what we don't have. We do not act out of love for ourselves, but out of need. And that can be very dangerous. It is important to let go and realize that whatever happens, we are complete as humans. This ability to let go is as important as the will we put into our actions.