I really need to stop this crap.

Discussion in 'Rebooting in a Relationship' started by brett alphonso, Jul 19, 2017.

  1. brett alphonso

    brett alphonso Fapstronaut

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    I got the most beautiful girl in my life and I wanna love her fully. She knows my problem and believes in me that I can quit. God help me and all you brothers out there. When i fap to porn, I lose my ability to love her, porn robs me of that precious feeling. Porn is like a lethal enemy to me. I gotta quit. I must quit. And I should quit!
     
  2. Flyhigh

    Flyhigh Fapstronaut

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    You cannot love your girl and porn at the same time, so you gotta choose. Best to choose the former.
     
  3. Nish_09

    Nish_09 Fapstronaut

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    @brett alphonso
    You can brother. And you are quitting.
    You have already taken the first step by joining here.
    It means a lot. I have myself seen improvements by visiting this site and reading things, helping others, getting helped by others...all this bi-directional support will eventually make you so super strong, you won't even believe. Just stay active here and one day you will be sharing your success story just like many others have already done.

    You are super lucky as your girl trust you, understand you and ready to stand with you. That's all you need brother...That's all it takes...Just stay calm and keep holding her hand

    All my best wishes to you...!!!!! Just believe in your strength...
     
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  4. anewhope

    anewhope Fapstronaut

    You can do it. Set up your tracker and see your progress day by day. Make the decision to put this behind you. You are luckier than many here. You have a girl who is supporting you. Focus on her and put the other crap out of your life for good.

    Good luck.
     
  5. brett alphonso

    brett alphonso Fapstronaut

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    Thank you so much for the well wishes and support. I look forward and will work hard on being sober for good. Cheers!!!
     
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  6. anewhope

    anewhope Fapstronaut

    Good luck. And DO set up your PMO tracker. It is amazing how much of a psychological boost that one little number can give you.

    ANH
     
  7. brett alphonso

    brett alphonso Fapstronaut

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    Whats pmo brother?
     
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  8. anewhope

    anewhope Fapstronaut

    PMO = Porn Masturbation Orgasm. The PMO tracker is the device which counts your streak - you will see a number above many people's signature. Have a good look around this site, particularly the info tab on the home page and your own profile and then set up your PMO tracker. Good luck!
     
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  9. i sense your love is still there for her which is why you are willing to change for her. May i ask brett, that when you fap to porn, you feel de-energized, unmotivated mentally and less connected to your girlfriend because you really desire to express your love to her and share connecting bonding experiences? Can you tell me if this is what's happening for you?
     
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  10. brett alphonso

    brett alphonso Fapstronaut

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    Yes brother, i experience this when i fap to porn.
     
  11. brett alphonso

    brett alphonso Fapstronaut

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    So now my girl and I might make love one of these months for the 1st time as we are both virgins so I need to prepare myself for that too now.
     
  12. Josh1002

    Josh1002 Guest

    New here as well and wanting to get plugged in and set up the fap counter.
     
  13. brett alphonso

    brett alphonso Fapstronaut

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    Welcome josh
     

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