I think I came to the end

Hey @itshouldbeimpossible ,

I'm just a normal ordinary member. No moderator super powers and no special insite. I share my ESH (Experience, Strength and Hope) of what works for me.

Just another warm welcome and a heart felt hello. This community has helped me so much.

What worked for me was "working" it. It took hard work for me to complete a hard reboot (No pmo) for 120 days, then move into a Sex Positive mode.

First, reading the literature published by NoFap itself along with reading journals.

Then, doing the work. Writing in my journal and replying to introductions and other's journals.

Finally, but not least, getting involved with the fellowship. I found it on the forums, but also in people's profiles. The forums tend to be longer posts, where the profiles tend to be more "conversational".

That is what has worked for me. I like to remind myself that this community was here waiting for me with the lights on when I arrived. Now, I have to do my best to be there when someone comes to the community.

* L

 

You are only 21 and you have a lifetime ahead to deal with girls. You need to develop self esteem first and girls are attracted to that. When you try buy love by buying gifts they can sense your desperation. Develop hobbies, social circle and work on your studies/job and you will feel good about yourself and girls will come to you.
I wish you good luck.

 

I agree.