I think i need some advice! New to Nofap, all hell needed

ftpalloverme · Feb 26, 2018

So i just made a NoFap account about 2 minutes ago but I’ve been doing NoFap since the start of this month (February 1st) so I’m on 26 days but i also have plenty of questions about
My process, I’m 19 & I’m pretty sure i have PIED. Idk how long I’ve been watching porn but i know right before i started NoFap it was a constant thing almost twice a day, including fapping. I have a gf i started dating around jan3rd and i thought me edging and startand stop method would help me trainto have sex with her Bc i am a Virgin who has been stuck on a computer screen for most of his life. So one dayi went down and ate my gf out after i was on my streak and had a erectionbut it went away shortly and after that it was her turn but i couldn’t really get it up so we just went to sleep. Twonights ago i ate her out again but no erection during or after. I get erections when i kiss her and see her for the first time but sometimes when we kiss and stuff it just lays there and not move. Do i just need to be more patient? How do i know if i have social anxiety Bc right when we do stuff ikinda overthink things but i am stillconfident and ready to have sex. And i also really like her & i wanna be with her for a long time. She knows about my condition because i told her about it. I just want to make her happy, should i try having sex whenever i am hard and confident enough? All the help is needed

NF4L · Feb 26, 2018

@ftpalloverme welcome to the NoFap forums! It does sound like you are indeed suffering from PIED. Since you are in a reboot and your brain is busy retraining itself, take the time to get to know your partner and be intimate without sex. You’ll probably be heading into a flatline soon if you aren’t already there and you won’t have much control of being turned on or have much of any libido to have sex. Hang in there it takes time. Concentrate on being intimate with your partner and getting to know them rather than focusing on having intercourse. Over time the flatline will cease, your PIED will also subside, and then you might be ready to have sex with them. Just enjoy the moment, and if your member arises to the occasion, and you have the confidence it will last, then talk about initiating sex with your partner.
You may also want to be vulnerable with them and admit you have an addiction and are working on overcoming it. More often than not they will appreciate your honesty, as it will provide understanding and perspective. Above all don’t rush it, if you are both compatible with each other, you will have a lifetime full of many chances to make up for the lost time from these crucial first few months on your journey. Best of luck to you.

ftpalloverme · Feb 27, 2018

Thanks for the advice i will defiantly keep that in mind

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