I think porn made me Bi

In my opinion, you should better know your values and if objectifying people (Men or women) is something you find in a relationship because the way you said it, you are objectifying both men and women most likely due to porn.

Anyway, watching porn at 9 and with that kind , have changed drastically the way you have grown up as a person mentally and emotionally. You will definitely need a lot of effort and time to know yourself.

DEFINITELY, nofap, will help in your journey in discovering what you really want.
PORN definitely brainwashes our mind to the point that we lose control of what we really want.

Being attracted with girls is normal and a step in the right direction.

 

I hold a somewhat controversial opinion that most gay people are gay due to conditioning, not biology. Your brain is very impressionable and plastic at a young age and certain experiences can mold it, and this includes your sexuality.

I think the only way to know your true sexuality is to go 1 year of no porn, no sex, and minimal fapping, and see how you feel at the end of it.

 

I'm so sorry that you were molested, especially at such a young age that's just dreadful. I definitely believe that gay porn had an effect on your sexuality along with that horrid experience. If your desire to be with a woman is stronger than it is to be with your partner, the best thing you can do is let him go and pursue a relationship with a girl.

 

Totally different story but I believe my identification with bisexuality, even letting a man have sex with me despite the fact I was unaroused the entire time, also arose from ridiculous over-consumption of porn. As the others have said the only way to confirm such a subjective reality is to abstain for a long time and work on ourselves in the process. Godspeed, my friend.

 

Honestly, being driven to men since such a young age may be a sign. Porn or not you may wanna accept your sexuality how it is: heterosexual people is just not driven by same sex people. Expecially at that young age!

 

take the courage to stop watching porn and masturbate. You will see first results after 14 days. Its not easy, but it really helps. Next target 30 days and then keep going. Stay away from porn and it will fade away. I've been there so i know how it is.

And yes, regular porn gets broing after months of fapping to the same content, but you are exposed to penis pictures everywhere. There you look for other content and here you go... you start to watch transwoman / gay porn and start to question yourself.

Unless you find men attractive physically and romantic, therefore you need to accept your sexuality. If you still prefer women and don't like men besides porn then you have your answer. Porn changed your tastes and makes you dopamine high.

 

Yeah I've been here before, for a brief minute I was identifying myself as bi online, on my secret Twitter and Tumblr. But once I started doing NoFap I noticed that it was really just the P I was into. Just from all the years of edging and over stimulating. I don't ever see myself being romantic with a man nor do I look at men and find them attractive in everyday life. I'm pretty cemented in my sexuality. Just take some time to your self, do NoFap and see how you feel.