I told my friends I was uncircumcised and now I'm being ridiculed for it.

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  1. JourneyMan16

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    I really messed up and it was stupid of me to tell them. I really hope rumors about this don't start around my school or I think I'm gonna move schools. I don't understand what the big deal is about it. Will women decline me because of this?
     
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  2. Slick Willie

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    So you havnt seen much porn have you.
    Jesus is it rare these days?
    Dont you guys take showers together after gym class anymore?
     
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  3. Marik757

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    I'd ignore them personally, not only that I wouldn't go around telling people whether I got the snip or not.

    Plus some women prefer uncircumcised men.
     
  4. Ensamheten

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    They don't sound like real friends. Anyway, that shouldn't bother you. They are the stupid ones for making a big deal out of it. In my experience the kryptonite for this is just act like you don't care. If someone laughs at you, you can for example laugh along with them. If someone insults you, you could just say "thanks, man" and smile. If someone goes "you'll always be a virgin", you could say "nah bro, life has already fucked me" and smile. The most important thing is to under no circumstances show that you take offense, then you're inviting more ridicule.
     
  5. IGY

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    The way you spell rumours suggests you are living in North America where a lot of parents get their kids' penis altered. Some women will prefer a natural penis like yours, but some like it after surgery. What you have is totally normal mate.
     
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  6. I'mJustAChoice

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    If you don't care about it they'll eventually stop. It's not funny when you don't get mad. This is always the same, there's rules that aply generation after generation, never fail.
    Here you have two:
    - If you fight the bully, he will respect you from then on. After all, what they want is to have fun feeling superior, not to actually fight people. It's not unusual for the previous bullied guy to join the bullies team after fighting them.
    - If you don't care about what they tell you, they'll stop, or in any case it won't be an insult anymore. If they're mad because you don't care, then they'll try harder, and you'll have to use the previous rule.
     
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  7. CH3RRY

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    Wtf? I've never understood this circumcision thing, always hear people talking about it being done in the US. It seem backwards , circumcising is unnecessary and not natural. I don't understand why it's being done in the US, I do understand that it is a religious reason for people in other countries. When I was a child my foreskin was rather tight and I was told that I might have to be circumcised. It was a medical reason. It loosed up so that never had to be done. I remember that I was being ridiculed for this because it was so abnormal to think that I should be circumcised for that.

    I researched this a little bit. It is indeed very common in the US and African and other Muslim countries. In Europe it is uncommon or very uncommon. Overall: "The estimated percentage of circumcised males in each country and territory varies considerably. Based on (i) and (ii) above, global MC prevalence was 38.7 %" Did you Americans know about this? It just seems odd from the eyes of a European that talking like circumcision is normal, and not the other way around. We are different so there is no right in this, but I'd like to know why it is being done in the US specifically.
     
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  8. Clemente123

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    Man circumsion should be done only for medical reasons. Genital mutilation is not a normal thing to be done just because of it. If your is normal and not tight , and if you clean it every day you won't have problems. Plus it makes you more sensible and feel more pleasure.
     
  9. Maybe all of you will eventually be able to accept what is real instead of fighting and trying to control reality to become something it isn’t. For example, many are circumcised. Many are not. You really can’t change that. It is what it is. I love reality. I am not for or against it. Both look fine. Both feel fine to the penis owner. Nobody else really need be concerned. If there is a problem, it is only in the mind of the person who has a problem.

    The main difference I noticed is they taste different.

    Mine is cut. I am ok with that.
     
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  10. IGY

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    You guys are right. Slicing off a part of your penis when you are a baby is barbaric. A natural penis is the best in my view.
     
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  11. This woman wouldn't :emoji_arrow_down:

     
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  12. overclocked

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    Ha ha, OP still has an unmutilated dick and full sensitivity! What a wuss :p
     
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  13. Theamos

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    I am uncut one of the lucky Americans that missed the knife
    In school there were only 3 of us uncut and there was some
    Looking and a few comments but most was jealousy
    I never once had anyone turn down sex.
    Unless you pay close attention when hard (and that is how most partners see it) you can’t tell
    I actually had a few that sought it out because it was different
    Enjoy your foreskin
     
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  14. Castielle

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    I would say to try to ignore it, and also not let it bother you too much. If you're confident and dont let it bother you, they'll probably stop. Theres nothing to be embarrassed about.
     
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  15. letter

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    Don’t worry my dude, the right lady will love your penis. Don’t let that shame get to your head, if you know what I mean
     
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  16. IGY

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    I agree. You have a completely natural body without a scar on your sex organ. You are the lucky one - so be happy. :)
     
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  17. IGY

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    Well said Sir.
     
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  18. IGY

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    OMG! :eek: How annoying is this person! o_O Anyway, in the short time available, a lot of good stuff was said, that's cool. :cool:
     
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  19. I'mJustAChoice

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    Lol wtf, I just realized you said uncircumcised, what woman would reject you for that?
     
  20. EthanW.

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    @JourneyMan16 Just laugh it off. You're in highschool, right? So, you have to deal with high school experiences.

    Look, this really isn't about your penis, bro. This is about traversing highschool tribalism. Your friends are putting you through a shit test. Yeah, guys shit test each other too, but for different reasons. Your friends are dudes who have unfulfilled wants and unrealized potential, so they'll shit on each other to try to create a little hierarchy of dominance. You just have to flesh out your place in that system.

    So, just roll with those punches. Own it. "What's a matter guys, you all jealous my junk doesn't look like dried out liver? I'm all American beef, dawg. Mine self-lubricates and everything, shit." Lines like that. Have fun with it. When you neutralize an attack in that way, they'll have to move on to something else because it no longer affects you.

    Ignoring them will make them more aggressive, and running away will foster dependency in you to always run from your problems. If you start being physically bullied, that's a different matter which would warrant adult intervention, but as long as it is just verbal, stand tall, own yourself, spin the vibes and dish it back.

    That's how confidence is made: Being bold in the face of obstacles.
     

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