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I urgently need help.

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by pelican1991, Jun 24, 2016.

  1. pelican1991

    pelican1991 New Fapstronaut

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    Hello Everyone.
    I turned 25 last week and I'm a virgin. The desire to find company and get rid of this burning desire to have sex is really weighing down on me. I've tried a lot of things. Trying to find a date online, quite a bit of porn. Its not that I dont have a social life and dont meet people. I do. But its just that I've never really been able to find the right person to be intimate with. Unfortunately the women I find desireable dont reciprocate causing me quite a bit of anguish.
    I dont think I've ever been addicted to porn or fapping. I usually use porn as a stress buster. In fact I've gone months without watching porn that too completely by choice. The maximum time i've ever stayed without fapping is around 3 weeks also by choice. But lately I find myself indulging more in porn as I recently moved to a new place and I am quite lonely with a reduced study load.
    I came over this website and this campaign last week and I decided to start my own attempt at not fapping. Its been 3 days and I can already feel the pressure. After I started I dont feel satisfied at my studies and feel immense pressure to relapse. I'm now more edgy and very fidgety. Today is especially bad. I dont know what to do. I feel like I will snap in some way or the other any moment now.
     
  2. BlackKnight

    BlackKnight Fapstronaut

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    I feel you man. I'm a habituual relapser, I can't seem to stay away from p and m and o for more than 2 days
     
  3. dayZero++

    dayZero++ New Fapstronaut

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    Replace the urge with something else. Read a book, go for a walk, cook a new recipe. Something positively constructive! You've worked hard, no reward yourself with positive energy.
     
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  4. therealjocab

    therealjocab Fapstronaut

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    I always find day 3 to be the hardest of the beginning stage. Stay strong, don't do it and find something else you love doing that will be positive in your life and focus on your progress in that. ie: I'm so glad I lifted weights for the third time this week. I'm really beginning to feel the strength coarse through my veins as I make progress.
     

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