I want energy again

Discussion in 'Self Improvement' started by Loko24, Oct 2, 2020.

  1. Loko24

    Loko24 Fapstronaut

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    Hey guys, I haven't masturbated in over 80 days. but I watched porn 2 or 3 times. I think my PIED is getting better.

    and now i have a couple of questions.

    i am currently without drive and lazy and want as much power as at the beginning of nofap. what can i do there?

    how can you get used to healthy habits?

    and does alcohol affect my PIED?

    thanks in advance :)

    I am sorry for my english
     
  2. L3t'sG0

    L3t'sG0 Fapstronaut

    i am currently without drive and lazy and want as much power as at the beginning of nofap. what can i do there?
    Basically, how can I stop being lazy and have a drive for something?

    Having a drive is to want to do something. Let's focus on learning to have a drive.

    In order to want to do something, you must first have a want obviously.

    To do that, you need to find out all about your yearnings. Your yearnings, by putting a lot of thought into them, will tell you what you want. Now, how can we think about our yearnings and let them tell us what we want?

    Personally, I recommend reading the following links.
    https://waitbutwhy.com/2018/04/picking-career.html
    https://waitbutwhy.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/WBW_Career-Path_Worksheet.pdf

    If you need more clarification, these articles will help you decide what career path you truly want. This is done through removing all the things that are not you and growing the things that are you. Really, these links will explain what I told you in a more clear and detailed order.

    I would like to warn you that this can take a couple of hours - days to complete. If you feel anything bad, you can always post here on Nofap and we'll help you.

    Once you have a drive, I would recommend reading the reddit get-disciplined wiki. Then, your path is of your choosing.

    Have a great day.
     
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  3. L3t'sG0

    L3t'sG0 Fapstronaut

    I like to add one more thing. Sexual urges both try to disallow me from doing actions sometimes and make me feel passionate for it. If I could learn to be control sexual urges such that they don't produce the disallow feeling, that would be great.

    I think the only way to do that is to have a couple of weeks in my streak.

    Good luck me.
     

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