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I want my penis back!!!

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by Junior987, Nov 8, 2016.

  1. Junior987

    Junior987 Fapstronaut

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    i am 29 years old and have been PMOing since i was 14 years old and to say the least, ia am tired of this. I WANT MY PENIS BACK! i dont have a problem getting women, women has never really been an issue. The problem has always been me, but i never really knew why i felt so anxious around women, could be some daddy issues. I never really grew up with my father around so my relationship history has included a lot of trial and error. I find with guidance i may not have been in the place that i am in.

    I currently dont have a girlfriend, i would love to get out there but there is always something that holds me back. The main thing that holds me back is that i have premature ejaculation, i come too quick, and its very embarrassing. It holds me back from being aggressive with women because i dont feel like im going last very long. I havent, the last women i was with i lasted less the 5 minutes. Thinking back at the past, a girl in highschool called my penis small after she had grabbed it, she laughed and made fun of me. i think this has left me scarred and never wanting this embarrassment. but what does it really mean? i was listening to a podcast today and the guy was talking about how positive talk doesnt really work but instead to think about negative thought. what he proposed was to logically think about what is the worst that can happen. If i dont last that long, what is the worst thing that would happen? she may make fun of me, leave, never talk to me again, tell her friends... none of these are the end of the world.

    So how to put this into reality? Writing this makes it seem very simple and easy, just get out there and dont think too much about the failed attempts. Is this logical? can i put this into practice? It may solve my lonilness as there will be women in my life and in due time the sex part will take care of itself.

    Does anyone have any advice or experience with getting rid of or curing Premature ejaculation? Any advice is much appreciated.
     
  2. DBug

    DBug Fapstronaut

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    Do you think your premature ejaculation is because of PMO? If so, are you trying to quit?

    The girl that made fun of your penis is a vicious asshole. Srsly. Most reasonably nice women know to be careful when talking about guys' penises because they know that they can really hurt us with a wrong word or phrase. Only a stupid misandrist b**** would say something like that in public and to to your face and that's not somebody you should listen to. Next time she or anybody else does anything like that tell her that you are a grower (doesn't matter if true or not) but that her tits/ass are probably not. Sweet revenge muaha.

    As for premature ejaculation: maybe get the first load out of the way first? Also I think there pills and breathing techniques that help with that so visiting your urologist may be a good place to start.

    As for your anxiety maybe visit a psychologist? Also anxiety can be a symptom of porn addiction (so can premature ejaculation) so maybe quitting porn may help. That you need to find out for yourself since your doctors probably won't consider it.

    Best of luck mate!
     
    Last edited: Nov 8, 2016
  3. obsolete_23

    obsolete_23 Fapstronaut

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    I would love to just go in with that attitude, to just really go for it y'know. Wipe the slate with all the 'failed attempts' and just be ready to live the moment. If you can do change your mentality, then everything else will follow like you said. I have felt more like that since I gave up Porn and masturbation, so hoping even if I'm not at the right stop yet, I'm at least on the right road ;)
     
  4. Gezol

    Gezol New Fapstronaut

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    I know this this thread is a bit older but i found something interesting.
    Do you contract your PC muscles when you masturbate, if you do. Thats the reason why you have PE. I've tested this by relaxing my PC Muscles while masturbating and i was able to last 2x the duration i was before by contracting them. I think this is due to people starting to masturbate at young age and trying to orgasm fast as possible. You probably use those muscles and you don't even notice it.
     
    Last edited: Mar 5, 2017

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