I want some cheeks but at the sametime Im okay with being alone.

I think it is more about getting "The cheeks" (quite a colorful way of putting it) of someone you could spend the rest of your life with. Probably that is why those guys who get "cheeks" all the time look "miserable af" is because it is shallow and superficial.

 

Yeah, all the guys in my life that "get cheeks" (lol) all the time tell me that they are miserable.

"I just wish I could be with a girl that I actually cared about. Someone that I could trust going to parties and clubs. That stuff keeps me up at night" - A friend of mine

 

They’re receiving a lot of pleasure, that’s for sure, but not actual happiness.
They are very different things. Keep building yourself up man, eventually you will get a job and a car. Get someone who can keep you accountable and push your ass when you need to be pushed to take the next step.
Keep being happy being single. You don’t need anyone to complete you. You already complete yourself. Being with a girl should only enhance/complement your life.
Hope everything works out. You seem to be on the right track

 

Such positivity around this thread .. Great loved reading it.

 

When you think about it, living at home with your parents, despite not having a job, is a better place to be at than being unhappy or dissatisfied with a woman who is not willing to stay with you long-term like you would. I relate to wanting to have a relationship and for the longest time too. I thought it would make me more well-rounded, socially acceptable, but all those thoughts are societal expectations impressed on us. You can be happy being alone and you can be happy with another person.

Whatever choice you make, let it make you happy and fulfilled. Stephen Wright put it this way, "You can't have everything. Where would you put it?"