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I want to be Succesful

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by StevieG, Jan 14, 2017.

  1. StevieG

    StevieG New Fapstronaut

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    Driving 90 minutes to hook up with a stranger. Calling off work early to hook up with a fwb. Rescheduling meetings so I can continue on my "favorite" websites. Lying to my significant other so I can leave in the middle of the night.

    I am sick of it all. PMO feels as if it has a stranglehold on my life. I want to regain control. I want to be a focused individual that pursues his dreams with everything he has. When I have managed to abstain I have seen tremendous results in my life. I want that feeling consistently and I need your help.

    This is my first time on this site. Please help me quit and regain my life.

    Stevie G
     
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  2. douggie1962

    douggie1962 Fapstronaut

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    Welcome to Your New Beginning.

    This is YOUR recovery and you must own it. You may be familiar with other addiction recovery programs. The first 90 days of these programs require meeting everyday for the first 90 days of recovery. I suggest visiting and contributing to NoFap each of your first 90 days. Glean wisdom from the strong, encourage the new, and be wary of those who are negative and make excuses. Add the words of your struggle to those of others and help create this wonderful narrative of transformation. I have made my NoFap time a replacement for all web surfing and social media. Be wary of depending on technology like counters and web filters. Understand that the battle is between your ears more so than between your legs. Each time you are tempted to go to that foul place, you must remember the man you are working to become, and then choose to be in control. Do not allow porn to steal another second of your life.

    Invictus
    William Ernest Henley, 1849 - 1903
    Out of the night that covers me,
    Black as the Pit from pole to pole,
    I thank whatever gods may be
    For my unconquerable soul.

    In the fell clutch of circumstance
    I have not winced nor cried aloud.
    Under the bludgeonings of chance
    My head is bloody, but unbowed.

    Beyond this place of wrath and tears
    Looms but the Horror of the shade,
    And yet the menace of the years
    Finds, and shall find, me unafraid.

    It matters not how strait the gate,
    How charged with punishments the scroll,
    I am the master of my fate:
    I am the captain of my soul

    Be Strong my Friend.
     
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  3. StevieG

    StevieG New Fapstronaut

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  4. StevieG

    StevieG New Fapstronaut

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    Douggie, Thank you for the encouraging words!!!
     
  5. Retentionman

    Retentionman Fapstronaut

    Welcome buddy, great decision and begin now!
     
  6. D . J .

    D . J . Fapstronaut

    Welcome to NoFap where you are amongst friends who are here to encourage you and not judge you.
     

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