I went to a hooker and couldn't get hard at all

Hi friend.

It can happen when you are really nervous. Since you are virgin and she was a professional, you should let it clear it was your first time. As a professional she would handle the situation.

I have a friend that has this kind of problem too but with her girlfriend. In his case, it was due to food. I mean, since I know him he only eat rice, beans, french fries and a steak, he also does not drink anything besides Coca Cola, neither water. That all he ate all his life, never eat vegetables. As consequence, he does not have energy for any sport and sex... It's improving by changing food, but as he doesn't change too much it is getting better really slowly.

 

Take time and work slowly with this. If it makes you feel any better, this has happened to me over 10 times and the number of £££ wasted is ridiculous!

Your mind is used to linking sex and porn. You are used to watching 3,4,5+ girls in one session. Your brain may be searching for some novelty. What I mean by this is, once one girl is turning you on, your dopamine release is quite high. Once it starts to drop even a little, your brain will start searching for a new high of dopamine that it is used to receiving from porn sessions. Your brain is kind of asking you "where is the next girl?".

It will take time to re-condition yourself. Especially if you are nervous of the situation to begin with. If you insist on visiting escorts some more, you should ask for intercourse a lot earlier in the exchange. Remember this is your money and you have a say in this.

Best course of action is to find a sympathetic girlfriend who is willing to work through this with you. Good luck!

 

I had the same thing whith a prostitute.
Wasted 50 euro basicly but a good lesson learned, and even more reason to stop PMO!

 

I'm sure you were very worried at that moment... Don't worry, I had a similar situation my first time. In the beginning, everything went well, but at some point I began to doubt every step I took (So that you understand the whole level of insanity, I even doubted if my penis was fully erect). After about an hour, he started getting sluggish. After about 20 minutes of Blowjob, I realized that this does not help and if I do not do something, it can end very embarrassingly. In the end, I just got up and said I had to go to the bathroom and come. Fortunately, my Parnet didn't suspect anything. After this incident, I decided to turn to escorts in order to learn from their experience. I warned the girl in advance about my problem and she did everything just fine (apparently I was not the first with such a problem). In short, the essence of my problem was that while jerking off, my movements were very fast, but during sex, I physically can not move so fast.