i will not self m , just because i am lonely.

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by Deleted Account, Jun 21, 2016.

  1. sorry I don't have a KIK account.
     
  2. lordram17

    lordram17 Fapstronaut

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    If you're into Dota2, I'd like to play that with you :) Currently on my 16th day of quiting PMO.
     
  3. Bandit6of10

    Bandit6of10 Fapstronaut

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    Clarity helps. ...ginda got back into p-subs. Did you look at p-subs or not?
     
  4. right now , this is my 1 goal, I don't have 30 different goals like before. this is it!
     
  5. it's hard for me to talk to people, when I mo every day, that is why I am quitting mo for ever. I want to have relationships with people. and MO, takes away that deep desire. with out MO I seem to connect to people a lot better emotionally.
     
  6. Dziki007

    Dziki007 Fapstronaut

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    True that. Without fapping / porn confidence and clarity appears. I am on 11 days no fapp / no porn, and feels amazing, more enrgy, more focused. Keep fighting bro.
     
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  7. yes sir!
     
  8. Dziki007

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  9. I fell off the wagon, trying to get back on. just soooo lonely, no one to connect with, but I figure if I stay on track for 90 days. MO takes the energy and need, therefor I don't try to even talk with women. so 90 days it is. starting today again.
     
  10. how are you doing today? still on track? short worded today, I am pretty tired and negative, I am tired of getting on craig list and looking at photo's really need to stop that, and MO for 90 days. how are you doing?
     
  11. badeae1

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    Hang in there man. It will get easier. Do what is necessary, what must be done. If you ever feel lonely again, id invite to join our nofap skype group and we do voice calls whenever someone is close to relapse. Pm me for details. Wishing you the best. Stay clean
     
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  12. Dziki007

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    Stop doing that i noticed its the main reason for relapse, browsing internet, photos, youtube finally i see some beatiful girl on pic and cant resist. I am doing good, i am on my 5 day, its hard, my balls are in pain but im trying to channel my energy to other things like exercies. I cant fail.
     
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  13. how many days are you on now? I am on day 2. very much want to relief, but won't got to make 90 days.
     
  14. Dziki007

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    I am on about 9 days, going strong with no fapp/no porn but i have problems with fantazies during night and morning, its all in the head. I know it requires very strong will power and if i make at least 30 days that i will know im stronger person who controls myself so in the near future i will control more things. When urge hits i try push myself thoughts of memories when i was emarassed ashamed and sad becasue of constant fapping and watching porn. Stay strong brother, its time for change.
     
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  15. its true, youll feel more in charge of your personal life. also it is time for a change. not tomorrow. just hard. I can't focus till I get off, so I am trying not to get turned on in the first place. then I don't have to release. it's just sooo hard.
     
  16. the one way and the other, I am trying to do the 'right thing' it's just so hard. so hard to change, so hard to stop getting pleasure.
     
  17. Dziki007

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    Yes i know its hard becasue there is triggers everywhere, youtube, ads, movies etc. When i see sexual scene in movie i try to move it up and avoid that scene. At begging of this journey you need to be focus on this addiction all the time, probably in time it will be easier, but at begging it requires enormus FOCUS and STRENGHT and think about benefits like semen retention. Semen retention makes us more alpha male, more confident, clear, inteligent think about it all the time.
     
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  18. thanks dude...I always forget to think about the positive things.
     
  19. you keep going forward to dude, you can do it!!!
     
  20. yes, that is the sad part, why I should totoly stop all together, each time, its just as hard, like the space shuttle never getting to outer space, floating around peacefully, but rather keep trying to launch over and over. soooo hard to break the old patern.
     

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