I wonder if I can ever find the right man for me?

in your case nothing shocks me anymore. You might be the one having the hardest time among all forum members.

 

Wait, are you the same guy who loves being pegged?

 

I mean, I don't think oral sex is limited to Western cultures. I just think she's nuts.

 

Yeah. Comparing oral to anal is not really in a sane person's repertoire.

 

That's not even the worst of it. Animals do have oral intercourse. Bears do it all the time, for example.

 

If this is all what you see in me . That's too bad, I just can see how you all came to this conclusion. Individualism promotes more selfishness, irresponsibility, not thinking about consequences of actions, valuing individual freedoms more than community and family stability. It will be the ruin of your civilizations, it has already began and it's getting uncontrolable.
If you can't see how putting a genitalia inside or near a mouth has no bad consequences or that it is what purpose genitals were meant to serve. There is little hope for western socities in general.
Or, if you think anal sex is not natural and dangerous but you are completely OK with oral sex even though it fits the same criteria. I don't think it's even necessary to drag this any further. Seeing all the shocking confessions members give in here. It's almost impossible you would see anything wrong with an act that has been so normalized nobody thinks twice about doing it.
Your individualistic approach of sexuality and lack of concern for the bigger community you happen to live in, is to me a sign many wouldn't be able to recover or stabilize their mental health at all. Don't count on your liberal medias or mental health professionals to give a damn about what you are enduring right now, in silence. This is the reason many prefer to seek help on this platform, instead of liberating them for the whole world to see.

this is what individualism means, putting indvidual choices and liberty as a priority. If that is what you believe, you should respect consensual incest as well. Many children born of accidental incest exhibit no health problems. Including those from first cousin degree union or siblings.
Why don't have a passionate debate with fellacious about this ? He seems to be supportive of incest. I bet you have a lot to tell each others about this topic.

I remember reading this in another topic. It was also your answer. I wonder why you have such a strong fixation on dogs . You could have chosen another specie but it's always about dogs to you.

It depends on what you define as natural. I already brought this particular issue with other forum members. Go look for it if it is my stance you wish to know. though you didn't clarify the reasons you don't condone incest. What makes you against this type of relationships ? what type of reasons make you refuse them, moral, religious, scientific, cultural ? and what makes you so confident those ethics are the "right" ones like @Mordobarn said to me?
The same questions go to fellacious as well. and you too @Mordobarn .
Being called nuts does little for me at this point, espescially if it's by a westerner. Considering the low limits and boundaries you have toward sexuality as a whole. It's not who you were meant to be when you came to the world, would you all have considered oral/anal sex as well as incest and other practices westerners are so fond of as a form of 'play' , to be normal if not for the overwhelming liberalism, and mindless freedom seeking that your culture is widely known for ?
These are questions that belong to so many monologues of forum members.
I really feel curious about this question, many either try to evade or fail to answer.
I never said Those sexual practices are only practiced in the west . I'm not that ignorant. It's the attitude of acceptance toward them that is always associated with the west.

 

It is the view you have that made the porn industry so powerful. Able to do whatever it wishes without facing the consequences. It's because of this very broad freedom the western populations loved so much that porn became what it is today. Despite many expressing their objection to it, religious and seculars alike. Since they were worried about about the community's basic norms, ethics and their surroundings as well. More than any kind of destructive freedom. it's the same motivation someone might have to oppose normalizing some degrading and disturbing sexual practices.

 

I return the comment back to you. I just happen to think deeply about the consequences of my choices instead of throwing myself into the abyss.
I didn't expect any less for someone with such a loose morality on sexual relationships. Aside from not answering any of the questions directed at them.

 

Thank you. This is exactly what I wanted to have as an answer. It makes things clear for me now.
You shouldn't force your beliefs on others. Many love their family members in more than one way. And it would be wrong for you to stand against their 'freedom'.
You are only trying to defend what shouldn't be defended. Who told you genitals don't leak waste and bacteria on their fluids ? Or that they can't come in contact with feces ? They do always.

 

Me too I have those same reasons:

• I think it's morally wrong and disgusting to let your partner struggle down there to provide you pleasure while it's clear he/she wouldn't even share a toothbrush with anyone, and they are humans with a natural disdain for bad smells and odors as well as genital fluids and excrements.
• I think both of those practices are risky, equally dangerous. And results in many complications despite both partners being 'std free. Some organisms live in symbiosis with certain body parts not others.
• I don't really care for religion. But I think it's better to keep human sexuality as natural and comfortable as possible, disgust shouldn't be a part of it no matter how low it is. Sex is sacred for most humans, unlike many other life aspects that can be moderately 'unnatural' and artificialized.

I hope me and people like all of you can be nothing more than strangers irl.
I don't want to even see your shadow.
At this point I feel pretty sure if ears and noses could artificially stretched there will be advocates for it. Nasal sex would be thing, even though it's not different from oral and anal sex. Some people will defend this practice, just like many are trying to normalize incest and make it an acceptable phenomenon.
Call me nuts or insane if you want, it's a good sign If I'm seen as insane by a sexual deviant.