I wonder if I can ever find the right man for me?

Really can you give me the specific publication date of this maternity book, the period where you read it, and the text which mentioned this part about "African diseases"? I am very much curious about it.

 

It's very hard to stay passive when you feel insulted and the people of your homeland insulted and belitteled.

 

For me, personally, I would be fine with vaginal sex- as long as it is good and frequent! The other acts you described are a bonus, but I know most women are put off by them.

What about yourself receiving oral? Does that really repulse you??

 

Yes I will feel just as repuldsed by this and pained. I wish to never be in that situation ever. And I assume my vagina is just as untasty as a penis,I treat my partner the same I wish to be treated.This is how I perceive empathy in relationships.
Maybe you too are put off with this? who knows?

 

I can respect that, but of course I'm not put off by it - the opposite in fact, vaginal intercourse is my favourite past time when it comes to sex!

I know my wife doesn't generally like oral sex either, and she only reserves it for very special / heated moments, when she's in the mood.

 

I wasn't referring to vaginal intercourse when I asked you that question.
I think your wife might only be making a sacrifice to please you, maybe she believes that if she doesn't you will look somewhere else; who knows ? a lot of women have this mindset even though they appear to be fervent feminists.
I wonder why you said your wife doesn't like it ? what made you believe that ?

 

I will be more than happy to give you the answers you want , but maybe next time. Now I can barely concentrate on two replies. I don't like to give shallow, ambiguous answers, but detailed ones who make my interlocutor satisfied.
I really want to give you a clear reply so please understand...

 

Oohh she loves it! She's just very shy and conscious about it!! I think some women are.
On the surface she is shy, but through our marriage we have tried different stuff, and I LOVE to please her - her favourite thing at the moment is anal play, during vaginal intercourse she loves me playing there! Something SHE asks me to do, and it surprised me as well. So yea, she is open minded.

 

I wonder what are her reasons for being shy about something like this, by the way I think you are talking about her being the giver or the receiver ?

 

I don't know, she sometimes takes a while to come out of her shell, but it's amazing when she does!

And as for giver and receiver, usually she receives but a few times she has asked to try on me - which I obliged, as I said I am open minded and she was incredibly turned on by it, as was I tbh - I didn't think it would ever be something I would do!

 

I have a problem with medias and society who assume I am a retarded person. All the time we hear only the perspective of these sexual liberation apologists who leave little room for criticism and opposition.
It is more than obvious that oral and anal are disgusting and unsanitary, thus very risky. but every media is saturated with lies created in order to make people dumber and dumber, to sum up my position I think:

• Oral and anal are unnatural, so deviant at the very least and not only from a religious outlook.
• very much perceived as degrading by a lot of people (either secretly or plainly stated), but never dare to express their authentic feelings due to the saturation of society with liberal junk food worldviews.
• A lot of people "out grow" their disgust and aversion by focusing on the idea of "love", that has anything to do with love because licking a waste exit is more submissive than loving (even some primates punish each others by throwing waste ). and the attitude of the receiver doesn't have to expose this, when people are afraid of serious consequences they try to conceal their real feelings as much as they can.
• Many infections originates from these acts that have nothing related to our innate biological functioning, except from pleasure, and saying pleasure is a good and healthy motive is very far from responsibility and wisdom.

So, you can call me a "prude" if you want, but I think I have a very logical thinking than those who call me a "prude".

 

And what are your thoughts when you go down on her ? tell me those thoughts that might not be related to her pleasure or pride of making her come and more with you as an individual and a sensing person.

 

I love going down on her, making her cum! I know you might see it as unnatural and messy, but it really gets her going! Again, it's not something that is part of our usual routine, but it is good when it happens!

 

you didn't give me the right answer to my question, please read it again.

 

Okay, gotcha! I think my non-sexual thoughts would be disgust and feeling animalistic? Does it make me a bad person for performing oral on her?

 

No but a very sad person in my opinion. I think you deserve to have this human decency.