I hear what you're saying man. But like I said, I've experienced situations where people have bombarded me with rude comments about my life style, daily problems, and other issues. Sometimes people are blunt and just tell the truth like it is, and at times it can be helpful as long as they're not attacking me like Disgruntled Worker did. Even worse I've had a Fapstronaut who was relentless and commented on how much of a "pussy" I was for not getting over a girl that I really liked and even adored... I understand where you're coming from, but we just have to ignore these kind of people. Sometimes I just try to understand them despite everything that they've said. Sometimes it works and other times it doesn't. But if you known me long enough, I'm a Fapstronaut who motivates, supports, and encourages other people. I refuse to put down others because after all, this is a support group right? Just ignore him. I may still have some sympathy for him, but he has his own battles to deal with. We should just continue to do what we do best here on Nofap. And that is to support others regardless of who they are and what they've been through.