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If I can do this so can you 100 percent rebooted.

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by KarezzaKing729, Mar 31, 2017.

  1. KarezzaKing729

    KarezzaKing729 Fapstronaut

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    I had attempted reboots several times and have failed many times because I went about it the wrong time. Marking Xs on your calendar day by day and waiting for your penis to return to glory is not a roadmap to success. Honestly, who gives a shit about some dumb 90 day milestone. Gentleman, it's about kicking this shit out of our brains for eternity.

    I am now 4 months porn free and feel sexually and spiritually reborn. I watched porn sometimes 3-5 times a day and had escalated my tastes to cuckolding and sissification videos that were a result of my brain requiring more and more dopamine to feel the same responses I was addicted to.

    On my final reboot I woke after a month of no PMO really craving the releases and novelty I have been addicted to for years. Instead of falling back into the darkness I reached out to a woman who taught Karezza. For those of you who don't know what it is, it is the practice of intimacy without orgasm. It completely changed my life. When we (the men on this site) were blowing are loads everyday we were draining our energy, lifeforce and positive energies out of us at very disturbing rates. People don't realize it takes the male body two weeks to return to homeostasis after an orgasm. Just imagine what multiple orgasms a day can do to you spiritually.

    About a month in with my first karezza experience, I learned how powerful just simple touch and holding of a woman can be with no expectations of sex. Completely going back to the basics. I was in the shower with a female friend of mine who had known of my erectile dysfunction. We were washing each other and before I knew it my penis started showing signs of life. It was as if everyday I abstained I grew more powerful. Everyday I abstained those stupid fetishes had a weaker influence on me.

    The more I studied karezza teachings I learned how many other substances we as men indulge in that effect our sexual capabilities. Marijuana, cigarettes, excessive drinking, and eating of processed garbage were part of my lifestyle even though I was a gym rat. Regaining my sexual power was my new obsession and not only did I kick porn but I quit smoking pot and cigarettes while significantly cut down on drinking. If you really want the knowledge that gave me strength you have to read Cupids poisoned arrow.

    Even with my new found optimism, the flatlines really did stress me out and I had multiple ones. After the first month I thought I was A ok, my moods were high, libido was growing and thought I was back to being a whole man again. A second flatline hit me that lasted about 45 days. During this time I stayed strong and embraced the dead dick. At times I thought I'd be one of those cases you read about where it takes a guy multiple years to overcome the PIED. I kept abstaining and kept reading and studying karezza.

    Fast forward to today, I have gone from no sexual capabilities to a man who has mastered his own sexual energy and I have proudly given a girl 6 orgasms in one session from controlling and abstaining from orgasms. I do not miss porn at all, I just regret how much real good sex I was missing out on for the majority of my twenties. I stopped counting days, but it was around 3 months when things started to really get good. THIS SHIT WORKS. When you abstain from porn and orgasms your sexual bubble grows and women WILL be drawn to it. Karezza was my tool for success. For me a ten second orgasm is nothing compared to two hours of intimate bonding sex where I feel no drainage or weakness afterwards. I understand that a lot of you will think I'm crazy, maybe I am lol. As far as blue balls go, your body adapts and cold showers HELP a lot when you first start. Fuck 90 days gentleman, orgasm only when you really need to. The resurrection of men starts now with us. If I can do this you can too. Don't let the flatlines fuck with your head. Don't count the days. Three months is a goal, eternity is the journey.
    I love all of you.
    "If your going through hell, just keep good by"

    Signs of recovery
    Awesome eye contact
    No anxiety
    No ED
    Monstrous libido
    Better muscle tone
    Better sleep
    Women will feel your new energy
    Overwhelming fitness results
    Become more alpha
    Better in leadership positions
     
  2. fapposian

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    What is flatline?

    Ps:sorry im new
     
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  3. KarezzaKing729

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    When you quit porn, or frequent masturbation your brain needs a long time to rest and unwire its sexual responses to porn or digital stimulation. It's your brain's way of telling you I need some time to adjust. During flatlines your penis will be limp, feel lifeless, and you will have no libido.
     
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  4. fapposian

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    Wow i dont know that,im mean i just one week without M but yesterday i watch P once,im going to experience that too in long terms or everyone for some point gonna get flatline?is it temporary?how do u mean by have no libido?
     
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  5. KarezzaKing729

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    Everybody has a flatline, people panic and turn to porn thinking they have permenantly lost their sexual power. Libido is your sexual drive, you will lose it during your flatline.
     
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  6. PieLover

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    Very motivating story!
    I myself fell into the flatline trap quite a few times.. But I'm proud to say that I'm over it :)

    Flatline is when you feel sexually inactive, and your hormones go offline. You will no longer be eager to have sex and you will feel weak. As a result of this, some people (like me) get fooled by this, and they go back to P just to reassure that everything is okay with them. Flatline is totally normal, you just need patience.
     
  7. TheFutureMe

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    Congrats man, it's inspiring to see that you found a strong pillar for your changes to rest on and that they're here to last and you enjoy the new balance. Great efforts :) You get me curious about karezza, I've read it discussed here before, but now you mention reading about it? Is there some reading you could recommend (in PM if it breaks the forum rules)?

    I just have one little thing that bothers me in what you're saying, it's that a couple of times you spit on the 90 days milestone. It's your right to say what you want and I totally understand why you're saying this. While I completely agree that it's not the end of the road, it is what gets people started on the journey, because it is reachable (after a few resets). And what's important is to get people actually starting on their journey. People think that starting a huge journey means "already being ready for all of it when we start", but it's really not. It's about the first steps. Measuring our dedication and adjusting for further goals. A first step, then we hit the long road. Those 90 days are a first step that we capitalize upon ; they're short enough so that it's not scary to attempt, and long enough so that the first changes appear, motivating people to reach further now that their old thought cycles are shattered and their self-esteem is boosted!

    They definitely need to know that it doesn't stop there, "90 days boom brand new" it's not like that, but telling them that they need tremendous dedication and willpower will discourage a lot of us (because we're so trapped in a system that tricks us into staying lazy in a system that seem to "provide").

    So yeah, fuck 90 days. But start with them anyway ! :)

    It is temporary yes, and may come back multiple times during your efforts to get rid of the porn lifestyle. It can be frightening to some of us, because it gives our brain another "reason" to try and trick us into getting back to M and/or P, often people say "Oh but I was in flatline and I freaked out and I just wanted to make sure everything was still working OK, so I relapsed" etc. Don't be fooled by that, by your addict brain, and rest assured that everything that was working before will be working even better after.

    Flatline may be experienced differently by different people. It generally involves a (total) loss of sexual appetite and/or capabilities. In many cases it can extend to general motivation and general energy. Mind you it's quite different from apathy which would prevent you from doing anything ; Flatline is more like, doing stuff but really not getting anything out of it, so you kind of stop wanting it. Ever had a cold where you can't taste food anymore, it's all mushy cardboard paste? Well flatline ressembles that in the sexual part of your life. You could be sitting in front of a gorgeous woman lapdancing for you and not feel a thing (despite liking the idea of what's happening). Does that make sense?

    Don't worry it goes away. It'ts one of multiple withdrawal symptoms that we all have to face, just like being hungry for someone on a drastic food diet. It passes when you adjust to the new you. That's not the hard part tbh, the hard part being "you wanting change enough to reach and maintain it". But that as well, is attainable. Just read the OP's post :)
     
  8. Rule

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    i can relate. no energy, no urge, no libido, no morning mood, penis feel like non existent etc
     
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  9. Marr

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    Great post, thanks for that!
     
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  10. KarezzaKing729

    KarezzaKing729 Fapstronaut

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    No problem man, you got this, try the book.
     
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  11. KarezzaKing729

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    Trust me, it will pass brother. I'm not religious, but even sometimes I looked at it as if it was god's punishment. Think of it as your reboot is working.
     
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  12. Thank you !! I NEEDED POST LIKE THIS TODAY AS HELL ! IF YOU CAN SO CAN I !! SCREW PMO!
     
  13. KarezzaKing729

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    We are pissed off for what some douchebag elites have exposed us to since teen hood. They profit while we grow week, show them why we're not giving into their bullshit anymore.

    Resurrection of Man
     
  14. For me abstaining from PMO is strictly political act !
     
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  15. KarezzaKing729

    KarezzaKing729 Fapstronaut

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    It's still for you brother, for your ability to feel, love, and take women on rollercoaster rides. At the same time your giving a middle finger to the people that exposed you to this garbage.

    Give em hell
     
  16. Runtilmylegsdropoff

    Runtilmylegsdropoff Fapstronaut

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    The only issue I have with karezza is that eventually, a guy would want to take it to climax. Just speaking for myself though, I'm just not going to be doing karezza endlessly with a gal because I will eventually want that feeling of climaxing with her. So for me, karezza just sounds like a bunch of hooey.
     
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  17. KarezzaKing729

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    I still have orgasms, just rarely. Once a month. It's not for everyone. Your opinion is cool, but get to your climax first. Any man can bust a nut, I want to be more than what I was before. I am more than what I was before. I know it sounds wrong but giving a woman multiple orgasms and then going home with all my energy retained just makes that woman want and crave you more. They call it blowing a load for a reason.
     
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    I think i've stumbled over Karezza teachings years ago, but i can be wrong.It was some article i was reading about this technique about a simple muscle excersize.Muscule is called Perineum it's between testicles and the anus.Unfortunately i don't remember how long you need to train it.Maybe 1-2 minutes 3 times a day for a month or two.The training is very simple but you need to be alone as you need to to push it with your fingers and voluntarily brace it.It was stated as the gift of multiple (dry) orgasms for men.The best part is that you can become love machine, no need to stop if you aren't feeling tired and semen stays wherever it must.
     
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  19. Runtilmylegsdropoff

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    It sounds more hype than help, similar to veganism, multi-level marketing, or crossfit. If you like it, knock yourself out, not my cup of tea though.
     
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  20. KarezzaKing729

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    Lol you know your shit brother.. I simply just practice using mental strength and discipline. Your right as far as becoming a love machine. In ancient times a man's semen was valued line fild, now dats men just throw it away like it's trash. Karezza was the variable that made my final attempt successful from the others. It changed my outlook on sex as a whole rather than just trying to be sexually capable. When I got to the point my libido returned I occasionally did a self massage with breathing control which over time taught me how to mentally control my orgasms.
     

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