If porn did not exist

To answe this question which has arisen in me countless times, I think of two things; How i was as a boy when i saw my first nudie mag with my friend(actually its same overwhelming feeling i get if i accidentally see a nude woman pic) And i think of how I was prior to.learning anf doing sexual immorality. I haf.morr free time and more love for people and life.

Secondly if you do some surface research on google. You will easily find that porn usr was not widespread and shamed up to id say late 90`s. It was much harder to get wasnt free wasnt as pleasurable or novel. So having sex and persuing a women were still more normal.
I hate.porn sexual perversion. Anyone that does this quickly finds their soul consumed by lust sloth greed. Not as we were created to be.

 

When it's gotten difficult for me, I've reminded myself of something that sort of flipped this thread's question around:

Why should I be a baby about quitting something that my ancestors didn't have in the first place? It's made my life worse, and my grandparents were totally fine without it.

 

I can't blame my problems on Porn. I have no idea what my life would have been like. But I have a feeling the course would not have changed much. I lacked confidence, and connection with people. Porn didn't give me that, it just let me pass the time easier.

Might I found more fulfilling sex? Possibly, or I might have been even more bitter as my wife never committed.

I can't rightfully say. All I can say is that quiting it now is right for me, and it is difficult, but I feel it's going to be worth it.

 

I wish I never discovered porn. If I never watched porn or knew what it was, my sex life would be so much better. I'm 17 and all my sexual experiences have been dulled by porn. I've had sex with 4 girls, around 20 times, and got like 20 BJs. From all of this I have only came once and sex wasnt that great, it wasnt what I had dreamed of. I even suffered from PIED. That is because porn had set a high standard for me that a real girl could never resemble. For healthy boys, sex is the best thing in the world and they always want it, but I got to a point when I was dating a girl that I had no sex drive because i was fine with just jerking off to porn. I seek to go 90 days no PMO and have great sex, and most of all real relationships with women.

 

@GreenBoy250 exactly right man! I do hope that you see the eventual day when porn goes back to the underdark where it belongs though. I fight for this every day!!!!

another virtue.of.non pmo. Women! At the.gym today women check me.out left n right. I also really want to flirt talk.check em out(not pervert) thr sexual energy is so right. So naturally pure. With pmo gone, our manliness restored our potential is boundless i say. Boundless!

 

@LGR44 girls putting out so easy now?? 17 year old and 24 girl is tons. Then.again.. I was not associate with women till my 20`s. But from my understanding women are much easier than they were when i was a kid. Hookup culture??

 

I can only imagine how I would be like if porn did not exist ...

In my opinion, I would of been WAY better off in the past ... Happier,Healthier,More confidence,etc.

I only wish I can go back sometimes but the beauty about all of it...
You live & You learn .

 

I mean I had sex 3 with three girls at parties, and a girlfriend who I banged about 15 times. Not to sound like a dick but im pretty good with girls and good looking I guess. Same with the BJ's, like 5 from different girls one time, and then a bunch from my girlfried

 

I definitely relate to that.

 

The lows of life gives you a great opportunity to rise as high as you can. Without this low (ie porn) I would not have risen as high as I have.

 

@LGR44 idk we had parties and kissing or some bj or fingering happened sometime. but sex at parties i never heard. Im quite sure your generation is far more sexually active than mine was. I blame internet porn and media here. nyways its not right what happen to me or you cause we are far to young to comprehend the wrongness of it all. We are wired to spread open vaginas and make babies, pretty much not our fault at all. But consider the evidence. If you cant cum with a real lady, and you watch tons of p and cum, then it must be due.to porn, and porn is unnatural and wrong.

Wanna be an example for ur friend and more than just have sex? Actually to care.for woman and.make love is 10x better than to FUCK. CAUSE WHO GIVE A FUCK BOUT.A.FUCK. WOrthless and degrading sex. Most of all I feel.bad for the women cause they lose out badly in the deal. Trust me no p and u ca. Have tons of women to replace usless garbage filthcan porn.

 

I agree, sex with a girl you have real feelings for is 100x better than meaningless sex. But I think that teenagers have been having somewhat casual sex (not all but some) since like the 70s when It became less frowned upon

 

For me personally nothing really.. I watched porn for a year and a half but was addicted to masturbating for 5+ years. With or without porn i masturbate. Obviously it felt good to MO with porn.

 

@LGR44 blowjob and a a sammich smoke and a fingering. Sex has now.become just as casual thing as lighting a smoke and tossing it out. Yes casual sex has been for probably ever sexual revolution was 70`s btw. Also era of invention of contra ception hormones!!! Ahhhhhhh fuk off. last demon of that brood we now have monstrosity of normalized abortion. It was illegal when we were christian nation(idk what u believe but power of spirituality cannot be denied). So casual sex is normal now where-as 15 yr ago it was not. We had no.word for it and girls would work hard to protect their image if dating not to be seen as slut. We also as guys had to work hard to date. Nowadays i feel so.bad for the girls cause they have to compete with high speed porn(we never had) the media; women almost forced to be slutty and dress like tramps and casual bj if they.wanna attention. This be my estimation.

Remember... An indicator of a societies righteousness is always proportional to how much its men and women can respect and love eachother.

If u havent got this u have no.foundation for a family and your.kids will be kaput.

 

I promise you 15 years ago, some highschoolers were still having casual sex. Watch a movie about highschoolers in the 70s, 80s, 90s, this has nothing to do with "my generation". Watch Fast Times at Ridgemont high and then talk to me. Im sure most kids in my school are virgins, but there always some kids that start quicker than others

 

@LGR44 k mang. I never said they were not. If you pay.attention to my entire writing i am saying its much higher. I am double ur age. I dont need a video to teach me what i been through.

IF you think it has nothing to do with your generation you are young denial and naive. Oh yes u are 17. How do you know better when THE girls i was with when U WERE 1 year old i was 14 already seeing them. I know for a fact...

 

I also bloody well already agreed that casual sex is not new??? What u try to prove? Every successive generation from sex revolution has.gotten exponentially worse. Direct cause of wanton casual sex abortions adoptions fatherless children n broken home. I have lived through.that and done research on it. Dont BELIEVE.me. do r
Ur own research.