If You Feel Hopeless...

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Hi everyone,

i am yet to listen to this interview as it is in the middle of the day and SO and her daughter are about and it may be inappropriate.

I am besides myself at the moment as my SO has removed her engagement ring, wont sleep in the same bed and doesn't want to spend time with me. i really need to know how to make our relationship work as its only the sex that is missing. We had a lovely date last weekend but due to work, weather, anxiety and tiredness we just haven't had intimacy and she blames me. I understand that her self esteem has taken a massive blow and i am to blame, i want to be the solution too.

Advice please everyone.

 

You didn't participate in what the original thread was about (the interview) and you hijacked the thread completely by asking for help with your situation.

You basically said = "Hey guys, forget about that interview and help me with my problem instead".

That self centered mindset is your problem.

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Kim Phuc is a great example of taking full responsibility of what happened by choosing your perception and reaction towards it. Both negative and positive experiences are what makes us who we are. What we do with them shows our true character.

 

sorry ill leave.