...makes you both the man f-ing and the woman getting f-ed. People like to think masturbation is normal, when it's not and it strongly believe it destroys your sexual identity. When you masturbate you have to become both the man and the woman, you can't be just one entity. And you're also stroking a real dick (which would also strongly suggest that you're the woman). The only reason masturbation "works" is because your body/brain thinks it's actually having SEX. It's also interesting to watch how people defend masturbation and think jerking off is totally fine, but the same people would squirm at the thought of sucking their own dicks to completion, even if it's exactly the same thing as masturbation (none is normal, it's just a mental disorder). Yes, if you think jerking off to completion is "normal" (it's not), you have to suck your dick to completion if you want to be logically consistent.