I'm 17 and need help to stop watching/masturbating to porn.

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Lightsparks123, Jul 5, 2019.

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  1. Lightsparks123

    Lightsparks123 New Fapstronaut

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    Hi, I'm 17 and sadly I believe I have some sort of porn addiction. I am hopefully looking forward to stopping my actions. I've been masturbating to porn since I was about 14 and I haven't stopped. It's crazy, I know. The thing is, the reason why I'm here is that I've noticed that my taste in porn has become more harming to myself. Porn that I watch now, my 14-year-old self would think of disgusting. First I started normal, masturbating by myself without porn. Then I found out about porn and started to masturbate to it and that's when things got messy. I then got bored of realistic porn and went into cartoons. Like hentai and porn comics. The reason I really liked fiction porn is that there were no limits when in real porn there was a limit on how far things can go. Then my fantasies became more intense. I started watching, not so friendly cartoon porn. Like domination and ahe gao, I know, I know, I am ashamed of myself too. That's why I'm here because I want to stop. I used to fap 2-3 times a day but I reduced it only to once a day and only when I'm actually sexually aroused. Although I believe enough is enough and I should quit. Although masturbating feels so GOOD, I'm scared of the damage it might make in the future. Basically, I need help. I keep having urges to masturbate again and again and it really hurts. I haven't told anyone about this except until now. I just want help, that's all. Thank you.
     
  2. Becoming Conscious

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    hi bro, update your day counter and start today, i can help you. i am also starting my streak. when you quit PMO for 90 days, you will only make right decisions and after that you will forget PMO, automatically stop PMO for ever and can live life normally. also install this app called Mandontfap in your phone, it helps. you can do it.
     
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  3. Nugget9

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    It's awesome that you realize that you have this problem at such a young age. You will be successful as long as you have a plan and commitment. Keep reading and posting on here and you will learn a lot and it will also help you a lot. Good luck.
     
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  4. Lightsparks123

    Lightsparks123 New Fapstronaut

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    Thanks I'll try my best to stop from now on.
     
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  5. Lightsparks123

    Lightsparks123 New Fapstronaut

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    Thank you. Its good to know that I’m not alone. How do I update my day counter and how do I get the app?
     
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  6. SirErnest

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    You're going to be fine as the way you present your situation is clear and mature.
    Read the Success Stories forum and learn how to do the right things for you to improve.
    Good luck/make your own luck!
     
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  7. Becoming Conscious

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    here you can find the up dating day counter https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?pages/pmo-counter/
    and in your phone app store just type mandontfap and you will see that app, install it in your smart phone.
     
  8. Very good that you realize that you have to stop this. I realised it after 20 years...
     
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  9. Gladiatori

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    This is true. Now u have ur prime TIME FOR SEX!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Lol. Get the fuckign porn otu right fucking now. When u havesegx with a woman IRL u cant even be hard.

    Porn this generation is rediculous. u ARE ABSolutely right. it will ruin your real sex. I ask. Does ye want it with all your soul? If uw ant this bad enuf u will do it.

    Women are like 500x more hard work or 1000x than the PORNO ISNTANT O.

    Real men work hard. We get the women cause we earned it. None of this fucking bullshit.
     
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  10. Ishan@123

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    I can help u msg me if u r interested more members waiting for u
     
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  11. Text me
     
  12. Or you know, I will text you :D
     
  13. saltycashews

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    Dude, good on you. How did you get started into PMO? If you want to quit for good and really connect with a beautiful women and all that good stuff, you also got to find what you are using PMO to cope with. You can do this, and if you actually do the deep emotional dive I'm talking about, you'll come back as a confident and attractive guy a lot of girls will want to be with.
     
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  14. You would be surprised at how many in your generation will be struggling with this into their adulthood. Your generation is the first to have so much access to super hyperstimuli through the internet. It actually scares me for your age group. Way to go for coming here!! If you have real dreams in life that do not involve sitting in front of a computer, push through this recovery process. Your brain will rewire quicker than you think and because you are so young, you still have a real chance at a very happy and filling life. We are here to support you!
     
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  15. Fractured Mindset

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    I wish I'd have quit for real when your age.
    Take from my experience-

    even as you escalate, you will continue to lose the rush you get from orgasm- and can develop premature ejaculation, and potentially get some nasty blue balls.

    Repetitive motion injury is a thing.

    You will get intense urges during your normal routine.

    You will feel sick and/or burned out as your addiction continues.

    Your mental well being will degrade and you will need professional help to fix it.

    You're still in high school. You don't have the burden of life weighing down on your shoulders yet. You have more time than us adults to find a fix to your problem.

    But most importantly- I found this quote on the nofap subreddit. This is probably the best thing I think anyone could apply to porn addiction

    "I already know what giving up feels like, I want to see what happens if I don't".
     
  16. Dr.Radiologist

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    At your age and thinking like this, im impressed!
    i wish i had your thoughts at that time to control my addiction to porn ..

    you are in the right way.. keep it up
     

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