I'M 18 BUT FAILED TO QUIT....

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by santravaz, Oct 10, 2020.

  1. santravaz

    santravaz Fapstronaut

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    hey guys am always good at abstaining, which works for my life....but again there comes this problem of pornography addiction and masturbations. okay! i can take weeks without watching neither masturbating but at times i loose to downloadind porno.....and i masturbate but this comes after "am like no don't watch porn but brain still be like watch some so after a quite long time of decision making, i download of such a longer length, watch, masturbate then after i feel guilty of doing it........i know can quit but at times i loose control of my phone, thoughts and brain
    -Any 1 with courageous advise please.....
     
  2. Buddy don't feel like u r 18 nd u still can't quit. But think of those who are 25 and they have lost the opportunity of using their golden period of age 18 to 25 in Making their career. I'm 25 and i regret that i lost my golden age in doing useless PMO. But u still have that chance. Use this motivation to defeat porn addiction. I want u to be happy at 25. I don't want u to regret like me.
     
  3. Searching_wanderer

    Searching_wanderer Fapstronaut

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    Hey man, it's fine. I'm 19 and honestly, I wish I had stopped porn a few years earlier. I'd have progressed so much more in life. But hey, we haven't even lived a third of our lives based on life expectancy, yeah?
    It's good that you're aware. Your brain isn't your friend on this journey. Think of your brain as a different person with its own body, mind, and goals. They key here is to get yourself and your brain working together. To do that, you must get to know your brain better and have a relationship with 'him' or 'her'. To do that, spend some time understanding your hunter-gatherer brain, especially in relation to how it works against you during Nofap. Also, pick a lesson from every failure and implement better strategies to help you. Don't repeat the same mistakes twice.

    If you need an accountability partner, I'm here.
     
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  4. santravaz

    santravaz Fapstronaut

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    thanks man...... have a got a right hand friend
     
  5. Little Prince

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    You could split things in two. Give up just porn for a few months and then deal with masturbation if it's still an issue at that point.
     
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  6. santravaz

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    actually am handling them at once but my attention is on masturbations
     

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