Im 4 days from 1 month without masturbating but new to the site.

Hi my name is Justin and im almost a month in without masturbating. Ive tried doing this for a reason.

Me and my girlfriend recently started getting more sexual and she tried to give me a hand-job but i couldn't orgasm and i didnt know why. She felt bad she was "ugly" which she is far from it and blames herself. I told her its probably because im use to myself doing it and nobody else ever doing it to me before. I read about it as delayed ejaculation but not permanent just situational. I also think its because i feel the need to orgasm, like im putting pressure on me to orgasm.

I really want to orgasm in front of her and show her i can and she isnt ugly like she thinks she is. Hopefully when she tries again this weekend, i will be able to. I think i just need to relax more. Anyone else with similar problem? Anyway, im almost 1 month in and ive noticed changes in my attitude, and self control really. Thanks NoFap!