Im a fucking trash!!!

Discussion in 'Problematic Sexual Behavior' started by Boochen, Jul 27, 2019.

  1. Boochen

    Boochen Fapstronaut

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    Omg... There's so many responses from such valuable people... Thank you for your feedback.

    The whole situation made me think that having relationships is at least mathematically possible for me. There are many disabled people (e.g osteogenesis imperfecta) out there who are almost completely excluded from social life...

    No one deserves to share such fate so I decided that I would like to contribute to research relating to genetic modification so we can prevent certain diseases/conditions in the future.

    Sounds like im crazy and fuckin science fiction but its just a matter of time and effort.

    God bless you folks
     
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  3. im’possible

    im’possible Fapstronaut

    Not in this one, not in this forum.

    Would you like to rewrite your story? Take a look of my signature and join the course.

    Just don't think about dick anymore. REAL woman don't care unless she is a pornstar.

    But they do care about how are you gonna love them in a longterm. Not lust them in 5min, 20min, or 60 min 2d and 3d screen.

    And don't be mislead by the so called society. Man usually attractive while getting old. And you're 25.

    Your mission is building your attractiveness one by one and starting from now. Should you accept it?
     
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  4. stoneyman22

    stoneyman22 Fapstronaut

    keep your chin up, don't give up hope. Things can get better
     
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  5. chapuleta

    chapuleta Fapstronaut

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    Man im still a virgin at age of 25 too, i kissed 2 girls for the first time last month on a party, and one of these girls gave me a blowjob after the party in my car, i will tell you, kisses and blowjobs are really cool haha,but nothing more than it.. And dont think about your dick size, there are girls who their vaginas arent compatible to big dicks as well there are girls vagina who are not compatible to small dicks. So maybe to some girls your dick is enough and other arent enough.
    Please dont kill yourself, what make me doenst met girls all my life was my way of dress and my stance. I Always was a lazy guy about dressing,stance and going parties, that ruined my chances with girls, when i changed i instantly had good results.
     
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  6. Don't ever forget this! As long as you are alive and breathing, you have a greater than zero chance of finding a loving relationship. It only takes one.
     
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  7. Felix3000

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    Bro , one day you will look at this day and you will smile , you know why becouse its going to be worth it HARD WORK , DETERMAINATION , is all you need , we are here for you every step of the way you mean something to us , you will make it and you made the first step being here !! , bro i wish you could show you your future , you are an a amazing human being , we believe in you , now its time to return the favour and believe in yourself !!!
    Longest streak 15 days ! Thats amazing its always about the first step , falling of the horse is nothing , its picking yourself and getting on the damn horse and moving on ! you can do this and we love you as a community !!! , get more streaks and be hungry for results and you will make it IT WILL BE HARD BUT IT WILL ALSO BE WORTH IT !
     
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  8. Just use common sense.If you kill yourself you wont meet girls anymore
     
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  9. Angus McGyver

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    I was hitting rock-bottom three years ago myself (during the late autumn of 2016) and I will never forget how crappy I felt that November night where I self-pitied myself to sleep.
    However, that following New Year's eve, I decided to take the first steps towards self-improvement during the upcoming year, no matter how small or futile in the beginning. Within a year, I had quit watching porn, improved my body language while also discarding the idea of a girlfriend as the cure to all my problems and issues since no woman could have fixed me and the serious mental- and attitude issues I had at the time. Fixing myself first from within had to be the first priority.

    During the year after, I stopped fapping as well and slowly gained superpowers and regained masculine traits I never thought possible. I have worked a lot on self-improvement the past 18 months and although I get more attention from women for every passing week, I couldn't care less since my goals and purposes in life are the very first priority. Everything else will align perfectly with time and since the saying: "A man's wife might make or break him", holds true, I am not settling for mediocrity there or in anything else I might pursue in life. My time is way too valuable for settling down with a woman who doesn't play in the same vibrational league as me.

    A reboot from PMO and the change of current habits takes a long time so be aware that it is a battle that might take years. I am still rebooting from my years of PMO:ing but the effects from those days are slowly fading away
    By setting high standards for yourself (and the people around you), you will experience a synergy effect that pushes you forward with even greater speed and will be a cornerstone in building a successful and meaningful life. So my advice is (and will always be):

    "Focus on self-improvement in every area of your life and develop an attractive and confident personality and everything else will align perfectly" .
     
  10. I bet you stand out in a crowd.A god among swedish beta cuck mortals.Did you ever get approached by a girl?
     
  11. Breadman

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    You do know that the part of a woman that drives them most wild is the clitoris? It’s on the outside of where you penetrate. Find that and make her O and she won’t care about you being large inside her. Also 3.5” is smaller than normal but not micro.
    Remember, it’s not size of the instrument but how well you play it that matters. Cello, viola or violin all are beautiful if played right.
     
  12. Angus McGyver

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    The way you express it almost sound like irony to me. I might stand out in the crowd of Swedish men who have submitted to the heavy social conditioning that's surrounding them on a daily basis but I definitely don't get approached by women to the left and right (at least not the pretty ones).
    All you have to do to stand out from this crowd is just to remain grounded, have a confident body language, not be fidgeting and react to their little tests.
     
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  13. verbeek75

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    Watching to much porn just makes us think girls only want sex, last year I watched a YouTube progam where they interview a dozen girls and a lot of them said that sex shouldn't last more then 10 minuten, sure some prefered long sessions but not many. So not every girls really cares about sex, so many couples only do it once or twice a week some even once a month or even less and still feel they have a good relationship. So why get stressed over something occasionaly that only lasts 5 to 10 minutes.

    There is also a documentary where they ask a dozen or so famous pornstars if they prefered big dicks and only 1 prefered big dicks all the others prefered more normal size and some didn't mind small dicks, its about the rest that's more important for them, how they are treated etc.
    So these beautiful girls make porn with guys with big dicks but they don't even care about the size, in real life their boyfriends/husbands can have a lot smaller dicks then the ones they make movies with.

    Learn how to pick up girls, make them feel special, and learn to be good at foreplay, afterplay, oral, finger, use toys. Some girls prefer anal sex, your size is good for that. Or just find a girl that is not so much interested in sex, everyone is different, you can still have a great long lasting relationship.

    I once dated with a frigid girl (sex hurts her) for over 6 months, we only had sex twice, we just cuddled a lot but still looking back it was a nice relationship and we broke up due to other reasons.
    I'm above average but that doesn't make girls come swarming over me, porn screwed up my mind and makes me feel insecure and lonely too.

    Mostly the porn we watch is all fake anyway.

    Fix yourself first, I just got myself a homegym and started excersising, want to start feeling better about myself and hope to stop with PMO. Just join a gym or similar, socialise with other people, wish I could join a gym alas I can´t.
     
  14. RamboErecto

    RamboErecto Fapstronaut

    You arent! your mindset is!
    Work on it, the thing will get better.
     
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