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I'm addicted to porn and masturbation

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  1. Jan 19, 2018 #1
    kennyjosue

    kennyjosue New Fapstronaut

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    I live in Venezuela. And I do not know much english. I used google to translate. I apologize if you do not understand much.

    A few years ago when I was in college, I resorted many times to masturbation. I did not want to have sex for fear of getting a girl pregnant.

    Over time I graduated as a systems engineer and now I have a girlfriend. We have had sex. We are separated at this time because she believes she is pregnant. That worries him.

    This whole situation has me stressed and I feel lonely. I love her and sometimes I think that I defraud her, if it is true that she is pregnant, I feel guilty.
    Since then I have returned to masturbation watching pornography. I'm tired of that. I want to overcome it and not hide in that, every time I get depressed.


    I need your help, please.
     
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  3. Jan 23, 2018 #3
    kennyjosue

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    ty :)
     
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  4. Jan 23, 2018 #4
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    kennyjosue New Fapstronaut

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    ty ;)
     
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    yw
     
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  6. Feb 2, 2018 #6
    kennyjosue

    kennyjosue New Fapstronaut

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    Hi guys, my girlfriend and I have ended the relationship. She had an exam and was not pregnant. I love her, but we decided that we will only be friends. Today I masturbated again, I feel a little depressed. But I feel like I can achieve it.
    In these days that I did not, I felt strange but happy because it lasted a long time without doing it.

    What dou you recommend? I do not want to relapse again
    :(
     
    kennyjosue, Feb 2, 2018
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