I'm getting out of porn addiction, but got back to masturbation addiction.

Discussion in 'Problematic Sexual Behavior' started by MarkusmPointer, Jul 6, 2019.

  1. MarkusmPointer

    MarkusmPointer Fapstronaut

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    I came back masturbating on day 47, because i thought i could be edging, now i'm back addicted. But today I masturbated again because I thought I could be edging without touching my penis. (flexing) Any ideas how do i prevent edging so that I won't think I should masturbate again?
     
  2. Practice self control by introducing daily cold showers into your lifestyle.
     
  3. MarkusmPointer

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    i mean im not touching my penis at all. only at urinating and taking a shower for hygiene.
     
  4. It doesn't matter at all how you masturbate if you masturbate.
     
  5. MarkusmPointer

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    I don't do anything about it
     
  6. ultrafabber

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    Well, yes, because a porn addiction doesnt really exist, it's masturbation and sexual fantasizing addiction. Porn just makes those more accesible
     
  7. MarkusmPointer

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    not only sexual fantasies is a problem, my brain rewired me from porn that i wanted to have sex with someone, but i feel physically not ready and i'm 19 years old.
     
  8. MarkusmPointer

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    and the thing is, i dont want to masturbate again if im edging. but i want to prevent prostate cancer.
     
  9. You can't prevent it.
     
  10. MarkusmPointer

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    but how do i know if im edging? i stopped humping my pillow years ago. im mostly horny and then i apparently precum.
     
  11. I meant you cannot prevent prostate cancer. I can't answer your other questions.
     
  12. ultrafabber

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    The study on prostate cancer did not differentiate between ejaculation from sex and masturbation, it just assumed they are the same even if they are physiilogically different.

    There was another big study on catholic priests (celibates) and they had lower rates of prostate cancer than general population.

    So masturbating to prevent prostate cancer is just a silly myth.
     
  13. MarkusmPointer

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  14. Edging is the worse. Forget about it already. Edging will also completely f up your progress..u will never get to 90 days if u are edging.

    The point is u must remove all the pmo and edging and fantasies to let ur brain reset. If u do it right, and properly, you will cease to be addicted max in 2 months, most likely around 40 days. Since than it will be MUCH easier to go on and ur brain will change back to default.

    By always fantasizing, edging and whatever you basically rotating in the endless circle and you are not going anywhere, or at least you - by far - dont use all the healing power this is supposed to bring you.

    Stop it to progress or u will never get anywhere.

    It simple...

    Go hard
    Or go home.
     
  15. cleaningupmyact

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    I have a diff experience than this. Hard mode isn't for everyone. Does masturbation lead to PMO for you? What are the goals you set out for yourself? How long were you addicted to M without P?
    Personally, I find the 2 very different. Going no PMO but doing M sometimes will mean that recovery will take a lot longer. but it doesn't mean its impossible.
    However, only you can decide your own goals for yourself.
     
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  16. Don't masturbate at all. Dont touch your penis besides for pissing and showering. No playing for one second or what ever. It mades you crazy if you do so.
     
  17. MarkusmPointer

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    It's pretty hard to get rid of these fantasies and other things to avoid. Even if i'm tired, i getting these fantasies again. The thing is, I have HOCD because when I see a guy, i feel like that I get a boner and I thought I could be sexually attracted to them, because I was watching gay porn because of penises. So if I have HOCD, It's much harder to avoid things.
     
  18. MarkusmPointer

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    but if i apparently fantasied or edged, do i have to masturbate? because masturbation is also my addiction and i want to fight it aswell
     
  19. Your lack of making any sense is disturbing
     

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