I'm doing good on the no PMO side, but I recently got my bachelor's degree and I'm still unemployed since quitting in December, still living with my parents since I don't have any income. As a kid in junior high multiple girls asked me out even though I was just a nerdy loner, but I turned them down out of my own insecurity. Through high school and college, some girls liked me but I legitimately wasn't interested, and I just fixated on one girl who had no interest and married a close friend of mine. In the last two years I've asked out at least 3 girls and all of them rejected the offer. I've made a fully fleshed out profile on several dating services, but get almost no replies. To this day, I've never been on a single date or even held hands with a girl in a specifically romantic way. More and more of my friends even ones a lot younger than me are already married and own a home. It's really starting to worry and depress me I'm so far behind. I guess my question is, how do I even get started meeting a girl and having a relationship? I'm almost 30 and have almost no experience.