i'm going to relapse !! help?

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Antiporn, Apr 11, 2020.

  1. Antiporn

    Antiporn Fapstronaut

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    By mastake i saw hot pic , and i want to do , i'll die to do it !! this is my first time nofab and i can't resist ...
    what should i do ???
     
  2. hollyman

    hollyman Fapstronaut

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    just stop !!!! shut down the computers .... go somewhere else

    have a little walk i u could or do jumping rope or burpee
     
  3. Cloudstephen

    Cloudstephen Fapstronaut

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    You need to distract yourself off the idea.
    You can exercise to decrease and that will decrease your craving.
     
  4. Master Chips

    Master Chips Fapstronaut

    Stop whatever you are thinking about of edging. Change your place and resist. Because a fap will take some minutes or even a minute and then you are back to square one tying to stop this addiction
     
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  5. harryabstained

    harryabstained Fapstronaut

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    Yes. Try a meditation on youtube or apps like headspace or calms (if you have subscribed).
     
  6. bike-wrench

    bike-wrench Fapstronaut

    Some time has passed. Did you do it? What are you doing?
     
  7. PrinceWarrior7

    PrinceWarrior7 Fapstronaut

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    Me also feeling same. Trying to distract successfully till now.
     
  8. Antiporn

    Antiporn Fapstronaut

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    i didn't relapse , just took a cold shower and exercise , i feel better now , but still have this desire , i'm trying to make my self busy but still thinking . that's very hard guys . my mind is telling me to fap because i didn't relapse before and if i didn't relapse for the first time as many did ,i will relapse in another day may be 60th day and i will regret for that .. i feel that my mind is working in wrong way and try to get any excuse to fap , and i think i will believe it at the end !!
     
  9. meditate. detachment doesn't mean you own nothing it means nothing owns you. U can see hot pics, but u will have to rewire your brain. Sit your ass down and take over your mind. You are in control. If u are going to run away from the urges u will never overcome it. Fight it head on.
     
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  10. watermellon28

    watermellon28 Fapstronaut

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    You have the rest of your life, which is probably about 60 more years, to jack off, you'll be fine it's not going anywhere.
    Just stay on your purpose and don't take it too hard
     
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  11. Antiporn

    Antiporn Fapstronaut

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    thank you
    But as first time no Nofab i thnk that i must run away from any urge , from 12 days i was addict , everyday i must see porn , so any urge is enough to make me relapse in my firat time..
    i can't understand how can i see hot pics? i read that i shouldn't even think about it!!!
     
  12. watermellon28

    watermellon28 Fapstronaut

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    It doesn't matter if you do it daily... just don't take it so hard
    I stopped masturbating several times for a few weeks and it was never hard it's just a mindset thing
     

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