I'm not having wet dreams

Normally you would have a wd after one or two months after abstaining. But if you were masturbating almost every other day and for many years it could take more time. Give it some time. When you'll get one, you will be on the road to recovery.

 

No, it's not unhealthy. Don't use this as a barometer of your progress, although if anything I would consider their absence a good indicator. Your body is basically in a state of homeostasis - that is a good thing. I never get them, either, and my health is just fine. [I have not O'ed, or for that matter had el sexo thus far this year at all]