I'm sick of edging!!! Should I reset counter?

Are you asking us for permission to do something? Are you the master of your life or it's bitch? Part of what I have started to see with people and thier programs is a lot of people have a side effect of growing the f#*k up. Our harmless childhood is over and it's time to be adults. If you feel even slightly like you screwed up and should start over why are you even askinh?

And think long term, what happenes at the end of your 90 days? Or 180 days? Or whatever. Are going to go right back to where you were before?

 

Oh man, I could really use you as an accountability partner: someone who kicks ass. You rock.

 

Yes It a reset,

But I think you already figured this out. You are addicted to the dopamine release porn watching gives you. Also, you are stuck in a COOLIDGE EFFECT loop. look it up if you're not sure. Your hunt for the next thrill, the next awesome picture, the next great fetish video, or hardcore thing puts you in a constant dopamine release addiction.

Are you single, do you have a GF or casual sex parterns once in a while?
If you want to succeed, keep your seeds for real sex only. Also, keep sexual thoughts for the bedroom (with partner).

You are healing when you flatline and seek no sexual stimulation outside the presence of a sex partner, but once in with a partner, your hardware functions and you have satisfying sex.

My personal 2 cents!

 

^^this

 

I find it virtually unbelievable that you have been using this resource for well over two years - yet you do not know that edging (with or without porn) is the worst thing you can do! Your streaks are non-existent, which is very sad. *sigh*

Please read this, take stock, reset and start again: http://www.yourbrainonporn.com/what-if-i-use-porn-without-orgasm

 

You are welcome man. That is part of the addiction - rationalisation. Because it allows the brain to get the dopamine it craves. It is sinister. But, hey, you have had some well-meant pokes and you are back on course - no compromise - yeah!

 

yes

 

Edging means escaping from reality.

It means delaying decisions.
It means wasting your lifetime.

In fact, the addiction is not mainly about porn, it is about fleeing from reality.

Therefore, the only way is absolute soberness, absolute crystal clear soberness.

 

I don't have a counter yet don't know how to get it but I was going to count it on my journal and I edged today because my erection would not go down for a hour I didn't take extenze or any thing I know of that makes you hard so I think it was naturally being horny from not watching porn so I just gave in a drop my load without porn tho just lotion and hand. so I don't know if that counts still or not but I think im going to rest today

 

Edging is a rocket fuel for masturbation desires.