I'm starting to become ashamed of this community

Discussion in 'Off-topic Discussion' started by Castielle, Nov 16, 2019.

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  1. IGY

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    You are welcome and I am pleased to hear this. Take care.
     
  2. Castielle

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    I'm glad to see you back and in a better place, too <3
     
  3. IGY

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    Thank you so much. Yes, I really am. God bless. <3
     
  4. johnmarston2001

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    The entire theme and basis of your constant complaining keeps coming back to one thing, men supposedly and indisputably being “misogynistic” here. Please show us this apparent attack on women and men being completely sexist, I’ve never seen anything of the sort.

    All you keep doing is running in circles, aggressively attacking others and viciously spouting off ridiculous claims all without showing even a shred of evidence, and I bet the ones you’re complaining about just have a different view and upbringing, which unfortunately for you certainly does not make them sexist. :rolleyes:
     
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  5. One Mic

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    Wow. My jaw dropped slightly when I saw your posts. You decide it's a good idea to revive a thread that finally died, especially this thread in particular, one that had a rather peaceful end to it, attempting to add spark back into the what was once dead fire. Then you dismiss what's been presented as "never having seen anything of the sort"... no shit, of course you haven't. You've only been here six days. Between moderator action and users deleting threads, of course you haven't seen anything.

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    I hope this thread gets locked. It'll only attract more individuals like you who actively seek out a fight.
     
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  6. johnmarston2001

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    Just because an account is “new” doesn’t mean anything, why is reviving a thread such a bad thing? I’ve been here for years and men have had their ideology or culture attacked and simply deemed “sexist” because they have a different perspective, the actual misogyny OP talks about isn’t common.

    I’m simply asking questions, fine if you don’t like it for whatever reason but I’m trying to see through their faulty reasoning and aggressive behaviour.

    I’m not seeking any fight, it was simple my dude, I just had questions and wanted to know why they were the ones being so hostile. Guess that was a bad thing.
     
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  7. Xander_

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    It's really interesting to see specific people here being hateful, politically correct, etc. Problem is that such people don't seem to notice that their negativity being spread around is just a self-reflection to many personal problems that they have, yet either can't see or hide.

    People, spend less time on this forum arguing about useless shit, focus on quitting porn instead, it brings way more useful stuff to your life rather than arguing here.
     
  8. One Mic

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    Because this rests on whether or not you're not actually new here and this is just a new account of yours (making me wonder why the previous account was left), this being information I do not have access to nor do I have any reason to trust you, I'll ignore this.

    However, you are very clearly attempting to revive a nasty debate that went on for far too long.


    "Simply asking questions". "I'm not seeking any fight." Okay. Then what are these?

    Pretty sure these are fightin' words and the posts you've replied to aren't even directed at you, further making wonder what the hell you're trying to accomplish. I've also noticed you said this in another thread:

    You don't seem very good at following your own advice. You argue that if you don't like what somebody is saying, you ignore them. Yet here you are, obviously bothered by what somebody is saying, and very clearly trying to revive forum drama. In fact, that's the majority of your recent posts so far, having a problem with the words of somebody else. This will be my (hopefully) last post in this thread, but (I'm going to go by what you seem to like) for the love of Trump, just let it die, man. You don't pick at a scab, it just makes it worse. Not every battle needs to be won, certainly not one in a forum most people don't know about, and certainly not one that ended peacefully weeks ago.
     
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  9. johnmarston2001

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    I never said you have to trust me nor does it honestly matter to me, do as you wish and think whatever, I just care deeply about freedom of speech while people such as them wish to suppress it. I’m not even talking about actual sexist problems, some here just don’t like other men’s views and report them. I dunno, it’s backwards to me and against what I stand for.

    Whatever man, I have no beef with you and don’t intend to. I don’t know what battle I’m trying to win, as I honestly just wanted to know why and how they’re able to get away with that hostile crap (especially that LBP chick), yet guys who are different get punished and banned for having “misogynistic” or sexist views. I mean the vulgarity and personal attacks they do in this thread is what astounded me, it’s honestly unbelievable to me.
     
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  10. Castielle

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    "Guys who are different." :rolleyes:

    Guys who are misogynistic and sexist get banned for being misogynistic and sexist. And for repeatedly breaking forum rules. Nobody is getting banned for "being different." There is a vast array of different people here with very, very different views. Literally nobody is being banned or silenced for "being different."
     
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  11. johnmarston2001

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    You claim this is supposedly such a huge problem here with “misogynistic” men, but where once did you show anything? There are cultures, religions and upbringings that may appear to you as “sexist” for whatever the reason, but that’s not the same whatsoever.

    I mean really there was a thread here where a woman was saying some guy she was talking to was being “sexist”, all because he called her sweetie or some nonsense in their chat. That’s the kind of abuse and privilege I see on this forum, are we not allowed to bring up or discuss any of our beliefs and opinions anymore without walking on eggshells? If you have a problem with something are you unable to talk about it yourself or just leave it alone?

    That’s why I say we’ve become too PC and you can get reprimanded for saying stuff that’s even just reported for “personal” reasons which is entirely subjective and unfair, because after all, people abuse that feature for when they're emotionally hurt and don’t agree with what your saying.

    So if you have actual proof of these “misogynistic” men, I’d legitimately love see the supposed overflow of it! People have already asked you for proof to your claims but you never gave any, so I was curious as to why?
     
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  12. Castielle

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    I referenced a lot of things. It's not my job to show you every instance of misogyny here. I have zero interest in convincing you of anything. I have much better things to do with my time than gather up evidence of misogyny, so some dude on the internet will believe me when I share my experiences. If you don't believe me or care or haven't seen any misogyny here, cool. That's not my problem, and I don't care. You're perfectly capable of looking into this yourself. Or, you know, believing all of the personal experience women here have shared. If you chose not to, that's your problem, not mine, and it's not my job to change you.
     
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  13. Castielle

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    I literally freaking did. Tons of people here were in the other thread, for example, which I believe has been removed. I can't show it to you, because it no longer exists. So idk what to tell you. There have been tons of personal stories shared here, and again, it is NOT my job to hold your hand and walk you through each one, providing evidence. If you don't believe them or just don't care, then whatever. I'm not going to go dig through literally years of crappy misogynistic crap to convince you that what I'm saying is true and matters. Plenty of people who have been paying attention already see the problem. I don't really care if you don't see it. If you actually want to, you are perfectly capable of doing all that digging yourself. But you probably won't, and I don't expect you to, because where do you even freaking start? That's exactly why I am not going to spend all my free time compiling a list of times people have been misogynistic here, for you, rand on stranger on the internet. Especially because I can already tell by your disgusting attitude, calling me mentally challenged and shit, that even if I DID do that, you would still find a way to dismiss it. Why would I waste my time when you are perfectly capable of doing this yourself, but choose not to?
     
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  14. Castielle

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    Honestly, I'm really sick of entitled people coming in, acting like huge jerks and being super rude, and then acting like I need to spend my entire day explaining my position to them. Why on earth would I do that when you've already made it blatantly clear that you think I'm a piece of shit and you don't want to hear what I have to say? If you actually gave a crap and genuinely wanted to understand, I would probably take time out of my day to explain and have a discussion. I just cannot fathom how stupid you must think I am to expect me to spend all my time walking you through my thoughts and position and evidence, after coming in saying I'm a big whiney, mentally challenged child who needs to re-evaluate my life and should be banned from this site. How on earth do you expect someone to do anything for you when that's how you talk to them? That's like walking up to someone and spitting in their face, and then demanding that they explain to you all the reasons why you should respect them. You're absolutely delusional if you think you deserve my time, or that I give a crap whether or not you support my opinion on this subject. You don't, and I don't.
     
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  15. Castielle

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    And I love how you conveniently flip from "men are being banned for being different!" to "some girl complained about something a man said!" As if those are even close to the same thing at all.

    I personally thought that thread was kind of dumb and a major overreaction, in my opinion. But so what. People overreact to stuff.

    Trying to equate that to addressing the misogyny here is absolutely absurd. I'm not talking about one dude calling me sweetie. I don't go around posting threads about every little thing that annoys me. This is a huge problem that has been ongoing for a LONG time, with many, many instances -- mamy of which were directly mentioned, but you seem to have glossed right over all of those. And if you actually gave a crap and cared to listen to how the women have been treated here for years, you would understand that. Everyone has already said their piece on this subject a while ago. If you care, go back and read and actually listen. If you don't care, fine. Go about your day, then.
     
  16. johnmarston2001

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    I never said those things to you once, did I? I was talking literally to @Little Bo Peep with not only her horrible attitude problem, but also the hostile vulgarity that spewed from her mouth (which in my eyes was far worse than anyone else was saying). She needs to re-evaluate her life as being that hostile and toxic certainly can’t be good for you.

    Maybe not every thing that annoys you but certainly the whole sexism and misogyny thing. My point with the “sweetie” thread is that there are some women here that certainly abuse the whole “misogyny” thing, and report anything they deem offensive. Men get kicked in the nuts at the drop of a hat as personal offensiveness is subjective, so when something is reported that they deem sexist I’m sure mods mainly rule in their favor.

    Oh well, doesn’t sound like you’re in the mood and at the cost of this being locked I guess I’m out. Toodles!
     
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    Hello all,

    This thread has been locked due to ongoing discussions which don't add anything new on what's been already said multiple times in this thread before.
    Kind reminder: Generally in discussions anywhere on the forums, always respect each other's point of view in a mature way and avoid getting personal in the discussions.

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