Im taking a leave of absence

Its been good guys/gals. Another member posted a post not to long ago talking about nofap being dry recently & i tend to agree w him.

I've been here for years (it mustve been) & i achieved my original goal of joining, i just realized. I understand that an addict is always an addict and i have less than a week streak but i still acheived (& acheiving) my goal (which is over-coming PIED,).

It was a long road but ive been here for a hot minute.

Now it's just that these forumns seem redundant & i dont resonate w that many people here.

Im also tired of some pretentious people here w their falsely-viewed superior ideas/religion/morals/lifestlyes. To those people i really hope you can become more open-minded. I really do. There are other valid opinions that differ from your own out there. < - - lesson some people here should learn (not all, you know who you are).

The censorship recently has been too real & annoying. Who knows? I might be back some time, and better than ever.

I'll be logging on later tonight or tomo for the last time in a while. To do some finishing touches. My acct will stay active.

Very few people understand the reason i post what i post & profile postings. I think the reason for this is bc i keep everything raw asf, which isnt always a good thing.

Some things i would like to address all users:

-People have alot bigger problems than porn (even PIED). Count your blessings

-A single relapse or even a series isnt as detrimental to your healing process (talking brain wires & PIED) as you wpuld think. People get massively doscouraged and think "fuck it" & watch more.

-Some members on here get angry and type some unsavory things that seem to be negative (i have been there as well as most people here). Understand, we're addicts. We're going thru some shit. We're anxious, depressed, etc. In this state, its hard to cintrol your anger sometimes. Same w a cigarette smoker that quits. Try to be positive even when others aren't.

-Dont take life to seriously. Go do things you like. Take risks. Smoke weed, get drunk, etc. Not just substances obviously, in general everything. Life isnt that serious.

-Many may dislike me and my ideals here, but i truely do love you. & goodluck w not just nofap, life as well.

This site was there for me to explain what was happening w me and my PIED. The only thing that was there for me. This site defintely is more positive than negative, by far. Mainly due to the overall support and an anonymous "safe haven" of sorts. & i wont forget what this site has done for me.

Thanks NoFap!! & remember... We the best !!!!

 

i'm glad you've cured and continue curing your pied.
please don't hesitate to return if you need any help.
good luck with your gf& good luck in college.

i wish you the best!
*waves bye*