i'm thinking about sleeping with a prostitute

Nah I buy things that give me lasting happiness, like clothes concert tickets or vacations, but thanks for the advice

 

Really???? Do you feel happy forever because you had dream holidays 10 years ago? If that was ever lasting you would never need another one in your life ! Lol you are funny! What works for me is the beauty of human connections, love, sence of belonging, trust, faith, peace of heart. You are very young

 

What is funny about that ? I made a lot of friends on vacation and the memory stays whith me forever. I'm 20 yes so what? It felt good to not be a fucking lonely depressed guy for once.

 

Friends are good ! If this is what you meant then please accept my apologies. I understood you were mega happy forever because u attended a concert! Friends is a different story, the more you can make the better!

 

Consequences could be a sexual disease....so no, not worth the risk :/ Do it with someone you love at least.

 

100 years ago sleeping with prostitutes was considered very religiously and morally unacceptable behaviour. Just because the whole society is becoming moral less and you are not is not the reason for you to feel bad about yourself! Just because you live in the neighbourhood where everyone is on drugs or in a gang or is gay does not mean you are the one who should feel bad for not fitting in! Sex with prostutute feels the same as abuse. They do it for money and all they think about is to get the job done as guickly as possible. Can you imagine having your first time with someone who doesn't even like you and looks at the watch to get out as quickly as possible? You better stick to PMO if you have too at least you will not be living with HIV for the rest of your life or develop cancer because of the HPV virus!

 

I wonder if they wrote how wonderful it is to loose your virginity to a prostitute... I'm 27m still virgin and I'm not ashamed at all, but I'm proud of being still a virgin. I really want to give something to my future wife, that nobody received from me before. And this is really something hard to keep for her!

You know, yesterday I've talked with a good friend of mine and she told me that she respects me a lot for not giving in, because she knows I've had already some possibilities.

I've read here on nofap from some guys who've lost their virginity to prostitutes and they've regreted it completely, so I would rather wait for someone special, who doesn't sleep with you for your money, but for who YOU are!

Beside all of this, you are free to do whatever you want, but based on what others wrote and what I think I can only warn you that it won't be as the first time should be. You'll be just a client, who means absolutely nothing to her

Oh, and if your friends don't accept you as you are, maybe they aren't that good friends as you wish them to be...

 

I gotta agree with the posts here against sleeping with a hooker. Especially losing your virginity to one!

Here's the question... what do you really want? You want to pay some woman so you can have sex with her? So let's say you do... After she she cleans up and leaves and you out of a few hundred bucks, how are you benefited? You have the memory? Of what? Porking someone who has had hundreds of guys and feels nothing for you? Having sex with someone who cares less if your alive today or dead tomorrow? Recently a high profile CEO hired a very expensive call girl who shot him up with heroin. As he was dying on the floor of his yacht, she was stealing his belonging. She didn't give a shit about him.

I also have to agree there is a risk involved too. You may think that it's worth taking. Consider the porn industry where actors are frequently tested, yet HIV infections are passed around. So even with the strongest controls, there are risks. Oh yeah, that hot babe in the add? She's undercover and you're busted.

You will do what you will, but actions have consequences that stay with you for the rest of your life. Is this who you really want to be? Is this the person you aspire to be? There's a lot to be said for sex. It's fun and pleasurable. Share it with someone you love and it all makes perfect sense and balances. But it's not everything in life nor is it worth taking risks over IMHO.

I wish you the best. Before you jump in bed with a woman who just wants you to orgasm as quickly as possible so she can get her money and leave... give it some deep thought my friend.

Cheers, HF

 

One other thing to consider before making your decision to spend your bread on a prostitute. The idea of having a super time with lots of fun, laughter, kissing, hugging and foreplay only exists in your mind. The reality of the encounter will never live up to your expectations. Why? because the interaction is completely a business transaction. Kinda like porn, don't cha' think?

There will be little of no feelings from the woman you choose because in her line of work she has learned to separate the physical from the emotional. And in fact, that is the key difference with having sex with someone you love... the emotional caring and love. So while you make think that she's into you, I assure you she will be thinking how quickly she can get you off and getting it over with - nothing personal, just business.

HF

 

Sleeping with prostitute is worst than watching porn.

 

Yes, it goes both ways. Getting someone drunk to have sex = slipping them a drug to have sex. You shouldn't be hoping that a girl is drunk so you can take advantage of her.

 

Did you guys not see Bill Cosby's arrest? He drugged women to have sex with them and they said it was rape. So please don't try to drug someone and hope you will. Now let's say your at a club and they invite you to their bedroom, that's a different story.

 

Don't do it! I wish i hadn't done it because it was with someone I do not have an emotional and meaningful connection with. Sure the sex was physically satisfying but I don't feel like I had achieved anything or I had entered a deeper connection with anyone.

In the end its just like masturbation. We feel good for awhile but we start to feel like shit after that.

I'd rather we save our cum for real sex with girls who are really into us and we're into and focus on being a better and more attractive man which will lead to more opportunities for sex rather than wasting it all on a paid one.

Think about your future and the fate of your sex life

 

I know how you feel. You feel like you have never experienced it before and you want to lose your virginity. You want to experience what others had experienced before (which is sex) and you can't wait to have it.

Now what if I told you...... that completing your NoFap challenge can yield more sex than you actually want? What if I told you that you'd be more attractive to girls if you quit PMO altogether? I'm starting to be more attractive to girls now and so do others

Keep the faith brah

 

True! Girls can sence man who do not masturbate! They are like magnets to us. We find them hot! This is what is truly attractive for us females! A safe man who does not sleep around and who does not masturbate! Where can I get one please? We avoid those who jerk, PMO and fuck around! I do anyway! None of us wants to get hurt because our man can not control his desires and sleeps left and right and bring disease to marital bed! To get plenty of sex for the rest of your life you need to get a girl who cares for you. Otherwise you will just pay prostitulutes for ever.

We often postpond things in our life thinking they will go away on their own or improve on their own or sort itself out on their own. They seldom do. What is difficult for you now will be even more difficult for you in the future. It you can not control your desires now you will equally struggle in the future!

Invest in becoming successful, in exercise, in learning .... Girls seek stable homes and mentally strong but gentle man who feel compassion! NoFap I believe works magic in those areas.
There is nothing atractive about alcohol addict, drug addict or PMO addict, prostitute addict, sleep around addict, gambling addict, shopping addict, looks and plastic surgery addict! Nothing at all! That covers most of our society nowadays.
You really want plenty of sex? Become the noble, knightly, honourable, fap free, responsible and carying man you possibly can!

 

Hii! In my opinion u should do it... i mean if u dont mind about lose u virginity doing "love" then do it... sex is different then love but in my opinion sex is sex srry if i am too rude. Do what u really want to do , besides sleep with a prostitute isnt bad ... again srry if i am rude just trying to help. Srry for bad english too :/

 

Paying some random person is sad. It's the easy way out, didn't you learn that with porn? Easy isn't always better. Having sex with someone who probably finds you utterly repulsive do to the fact that you are paying them for sex is just messed up. Having sex isn't going to change you or your issues. It's just a way to escalate your current addiction.

 

This is something I've shared with my Gravelords over at Heirs of the Sun and hopefully it will reach deaf ears.

Life nowadays is filled to the brim with things that are abused and in turn, create abusers. Porn and prostitution are a corruption of something important and productive to our society, just like illegal drugs are an abused, corrupted form of medicine.

If you were to use a woman only for sex, what actually are you gaining at all? Sex is something that society claims is so damn important, but is it actually important to you?

Think to yourselves, why do I want to have sex with a prostitute? If you are looking for a end all, be all for your loneliness and depression, you will not find it in a prostitute. Love and compassion from someone who cares about you will bring you happiness. It's an unending cycle of abuse.

Prostitutes are abused into working a corner or website. They abuse the meaning of sex, for money. She abuses you, by taking your money for such things. You abuse her for using her as a fuck doll for a night. This is disgusting. You continue this cycle of abuse and the only thing that is on your mind is "oh damn, I lost my virginity" or "I just got laid". This is very, very sad. Stop the abuse! Stop the cycle! Please stop giving in to your apathy and desires!

You are here to reboot and using a prostitute for sex is no better, if not worse than using porn. Why, in the living fuck, would you want to do such a thing? Because you are depressed? Because you are lonely? No. It is because you can't handle your own emotions and blaim women and society for your damn problems. Grow the fuck up men. Grow up!

I suffer from severe depression. I used to set in my college dorm, waiting around for the next view of my profile on dating sites or my next meaningless PMO. Now, I am on medication and I have found someone who loves and cares me and she is fucking wonderful. There is always hope. Stop giving into the quick fix. There is no such thing! Fix your life! That is what we are fucking here for! Fix your life problems and it won't seem so hard for you to find a woman that loves you.

In the words of Gordan Ramsey: Damn

 

They go there to run away from their problems. To avoid their emotions and act like rabid animals. To suppress their self hate, guilt, sadness, and depression.

Stop using other people as objects.

 

This thread is in loneliness lol. It is obvious what this is all about