i'm thinking about sleeping with a prostitute

Gh15 said:
agree , this is all about what he feels
no matter what the society imposes , but if he feels bad about it not see any problem
again this is all about his feels not the society imposition
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There is nothing manly about visiting a prostitute. Prostitutes are mainly used by man who can not secure a girlfriend in a normal way. Paying for something they can not get free is sad! Even if this makes you feel better it will be short lived solution as it is not really fixing your problem but numbing it like PMO. You either lack the self respect inside of you needed to secure long term relationship or the skills.

It is like drinking because you are lonley! Without really fixing the problem this will just take you downhill into total alcoholism. Short term fixes are always bad for us. We need to fix the real problem here and this is a lack of long term companion.
 
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Think about this : what if he even don't have power or energy to resort a better solution.. this is where in trying to arrive. If he can't find a good girl than he just have to whait or something? What if this take more time than u think? Like years and years. We dont know what is passing over his mind.
And about the alcohol : its not like that i drink just one time and bam alcoholic , the same with a prostitute and a cigarrete ... it's not one day that will transform u in a addict , but the habit. ;)
 
When i have sex with prostitute i enjoy a lot and the other day i didnt was like omg that was so good i need this again and again omg i really need this... no , i was like lets go out with my friends drink a little bit hahaha and search for girls...
My self steem came back... and this was my first and ONLY ONE time with a prostitute
 
Gh15 said:
When i have sex with prostitute i enjoy a lot and the other day i didnt was like omg that was so good i need this again and again omg i really need this... no , i was like lets go out with my friends drink a little bit hahaha and search for girls...
My self steem came back... and this was my first and ONLY ONE time with a prostitute
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Isnt it freaking expensive like these girls earn so much money its insane, i talked to a call girl once and asked why are you doing this job and not working in a shop for example, and she said because she could never make so much money whith any other job .
 
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Don't fucking do it man!
I lost mine to a black escort when I was in school for my job (I'm in the Navy). Yeah, not many guys have that story to tell but I'll have to tell it to whoever I date cause I'll feel bad if I don't. It's not worth it. If you're going through a dry spell and she's hot, by all means, pour the meat to her but don't loose your V card to a fuckin escort.

Oh, I should add that not all military guys get pussy on the reg. It had to do with my pmo addition and social anxiety that prevented me from getting laid.
 
If u look for u first time with someone u care than dont do it.. if u just wanna have sex just fucking do it... u dont need to be sad or depressive
 
recoome said:
i dont know. i mean i'm a virgin n am curious about sex...
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If you are curious about it, than go for it in my opinion. But PLEASE use protection and keep your expectations low so that you do not get disappointed because it usually is WAY less enjoyable than one would think. Best of luck.
 
i didnt feel any attraction to women because of too much PMO. girls that i dated didnt really understand what was going through my head, me neither. i just felt like i didnt belong to this world. i decided to lose my virginity to a prostitute because it annoyed me that i still was a virgin. it is stupid, but lets say that society made me do this. i just had to get this out of my head. i felt much better somehow. but of course sex with my girlfriend is about a million times better. but anyway, never regret anything. it doesnt matter how you lose your virginity as long as you find what you value most in the end. that is my opinion.
 
Whoaa totally agree , the first is just the first time!!what fucking magical has in this shit lol i mean i just sex u dont get married just for doing sex. Anyway best of lucky for youhellothere123 and for all of us :). Best days are coming ;)))))
 
Please check those sites below. Prostitutes and porn actress are one and the same, they share the same stories of abuse, drugs, broken homes, diseases. There are lists and lists of dead porn stars all over the net. Every time we watch porn or visit a prostitute we contribute to the abuse of broken people. Those people need help to get out of self harm, they need education, normal jobs, love and self respect. Nobody who has self dignity and self love would even consider this life as a choice. Even when some of them make lots of money, they are broken people. They suffer hugely. You might be fucking a girl who has been sexualy abused since childhood who most likely will die from suicide or disease soon anyway. When they smile at you to get your money, you do not see they have been crying from emotional pain the night before.

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rigiddan said:
Furthermore, it is possible that you may end up trading one addiction for another. Addiction to prostitution is quite expensive. The emptiness of paid sex is emotionally depressing as well.


Dan
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A wife and a girlfriend is even more expensive in the long run. HelI, I know guys who pay over a grand every month (and will be for decades) to their x-wife who they bittery hate and no longer live with.
 
Don't have sex with a prostitute, especially if you are a virgin. You don't want to remember losing your virginity to a prostitute. Lose it to someone you love and who is special. Depending on how much you pay, you could get an STI or it could be really disappointing.
 
lucky007 said:
A wife and a girlfriend is even more expensive in the long run. HelI, I know guys who pay over a grand every month (and will be for decades) to their x-wife who they bittery hate and no longer live with.
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I am feeling sorry for you. Sadly sometimes it takes someone to wake up at the age of 40 completely alone and dying of AIDS to realise they were wrong.
 
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Take into consideration that many of not most prostitutes come from human trafficking and that if you pay for sex, it is quite likely your money will go to criminal gangs. Some countries have actually made buying sex a crime and more are considering adopting this law.

Just for you to know what you're doing.
 
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