i'm thinking about sleeping with a prostitute

Discussion in 'Off-topic Discussion' started by recoome, Nov 18, 2015.

  1. jtmony08

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    SoI,
    All good points. And I don't necessarily disagree. We all go into the bedroom with a little anxiety. The quicker we can reduce some of them, the better. Heck I've been having sex with the same woman since I was 14. Even after 30 years of sex, I can find myself a little nervous. But that's different, and again, I see your point. Having someone teach you the ropes is better than learning from porn, which is why NoFap membership continues to grow. Human interaction is better.
     
  2. atak

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    I had sex with hookers. It is a great way to get your sexual frustrations of your chest but it is bad if you get addicted to it. My advice is to stay away from it since it can ruin your Nofap recovery for multiple reasons.
     
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  3. juswannabfree

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    My first time having sex was with a prostitute in the dominican republic and i still regret that to this day. I wish i can have a wonderful story of my first time but unfortunately i wasted it on a prostitute. The worst part of it was she wanted to sleep with my friend the next night but my ftiend couldnt go through with it. Dont waste your first on someone you dont know or care about
     
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  4. atak

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    FirsT time is not so important as people say. Do you remember first time you rode a bike as a kid? First time sucks anyway. You can never get it right the first time. It is important to get over it and have general happiness.
     
  5. juswannabfree

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    I disagree with this but respect your opinion. After what i experienced after waiting a long time for sex i say wait until u find someone you know and care about.
     
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  6. Gladiatori

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    Dont toss your dignity into the trash by putting your genitals into a human toilet...
     
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  7. atak

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    I yet have to meet somebody who had great sex the first time. I respect your opinion too but we have to be realistic.
     
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  8. ukmercenary

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    Hey Im new her however I think alot of you guys who think its ok to sleep with a prostitute need to know something.
    I lost my Virginity to a thai prostitute when I was 27. I've never been very good with women only recently get better after reading the game.

    Sleeping with a prostitute is purely economics they need your money. It's a cold unemotional experience even if they pretend its not they are just manipulating you.

    Ok so I get the point that you have the experience that your di^ works..I think you new it did already..
    In my experience when you get a real women into bed this is where the problem is.
    A real women has to like you ..a real women you have to work hard at to get into bed ..unless your in One Direction.
    A real women won't take off all her clothes and lay on the bed they will likely give you a few sh"$ tests and they will expect you to know how to respond to them..

    Also once you have slept with one prostitute the first time its really scary and guess what the 2nd time its a bit easier ..because you have normalized it. So really sleeping with a hooker is not really that much different from having a wa"k both can be addictive.

    You need to get to the root cause of your problem..i.e if you are not meeting women to get dates then read the game you might actually start to meet some women in your life.
     
  9. Andrew0268

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    Sone good advice, but I also have personal experience with "The Game". It nearly ruined my life and I scared so many women. Only when I dropped the game did I actually start having real success with girls..... not girls, women. The only guys who knew what they were talking about in the whole book were the guy named "Zan Perrion", who talks about appreciating women and being honest, and the guy named "26" who decided to give up all the pickup crap. Drop the games and be real. Women want a real man with his perfections, imperfections, confidence, his insecurities, and all his good and bad. But most of all his best intentions and and honest heart. (A full heart doesn't mean you even love her, but women love honesty, it literally is the #1 aphrodisiac) I've never been consistently complemented on my looks, personality, humor, kindness, or being good in bed. But, I've always been complimented on being honest, even when I told girls I wasn't interested (kindly of course). It's best to listen to your mother and to women. Be honest, be your self (your best self), and go for it. Be careful of "the game". It's not a game, it's life.

    If you want a book on how to be better with women, I recommend "Radical Honesty" by Brad Blanton. But, who am I? Just a guy. Read the book only if my post makes sense to you. We all have to learn in our own time. Maybe "the game" is really more accurate. Hmm...
     
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  10. Judicious 7

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    Friend, unfortunately I never been in your situation, but please listen to the majority of posters here. There's a difference between real intimacy & just getting your rocks off. A prostitute is after your money. She doesn't know you, and you don't know her. You both would just be using each other. You don't gotta resort to paid sex (which has huge consequences like STDs and financial loss).

    At the end of the day, you'd still be alone just like with P. Why choose that when you could potentially meet a woman who you feel compatible with? You could hold your head high while dating her. And then if you both are serious, you get married & share the marriage bed the right way. Don't you wanna snuggle and hold a real woman who genuinely loves you and will be your lifelong companion? I know I do.
     
  11. RiseAgainst

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    I am 18 and I did it with a prostitute for my first time, like last month. Yep, it was no big deal at all. It was the first, and last time so far, though. I don't plan on returning, it was just so I could experience something new and relief my curiosity. My self esteem got higher though, cause I did it by myself knowing the pros and cons, I did it consciously. I also believe I didn't actually lose my virginity as I used a condom and my p* didn't physically touch her in the act. They sey you can't even compare the feeling of condom/no condom, so I'll live with and by that until I meet someone I really love or an opportunity appears by my own merits. That's all.
     
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  12. Leanne

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    Thank you, shad0wbl4de for bringing up that point...
    I once thought of becoming a prostitute, and it wasn't because I wanted to sexually liberate myself. It was because I wanted to degrade myself. I was abused when I was younger, which led me to believe that I was worth nothing more than a sexual object. Prostitution is a sick thing - most the women are trafficked or left with no other option. No little girl says she wants to be a sexual object when she grows up! None! (unless, like I said, she was abused to think she did want to). Please, if not for your sake, for her sake (the woman you would be with) don't do it! Because she is a human, and she used to be a little girl wanting to become something lovely. Not a sexual object.
     
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  13. Golgo 13

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    Why was my comment deleted lol?
     
  14. Leanne

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    I can only imagine what you said
     
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  16. recoome

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    Thanks for the link.Guess my decision not to visit a prostitute was a good one.
     
  17. Leanne

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    You're welcome. And good for you!!
     
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  18. Golgo 13

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    with all due respect, porn is far different than fucking a prostitute. Porn is bad for your brain because it conditions your mind to respond to only videos/new shocking things (gay porn, bestiality). Porn causes PIED, brain fog, etc.
    Regardless on the moral implications of prostitution, its still sex. Sex won't give you PIED, brain fog, and social anxiety.

    So IMO I'd rather fuck a prostitute than jack off to porn. Brain scans, Research proves this is the better choice.
     
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  19. Gladiatori

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    @Golgo 13 Interested about this... I've thought about it myself. Honestly... I cant be bothered to play the game atm.... I have like zero faith in the women here to find a decent woman.. Its like 1/500 chance here.

    After about 30 days of no MO. I start getting really agressive. IDK. either to Deal with it or to go for prostitute.
     
  20. Leanne

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    I'm rather speaking more of the idea of porn vs. prostitution being the same (not necessarily the fact that prostitution has the same effects on the brain) because they both are using sexual acts to/on people to gratify one's desires rather than love toward the person. They both have the same feeling toward women - they both say that women are objects to be used for gratification. Not to mention that many prostitutes are forced into it through trafficking.
    Also, I know you weren't talking to me Gladiatori, but what did you mean by this?
     

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