I'm very angry and disappointed in nofap

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Ash266, Sep 22, 2019.

  1. Ash266

    Ash266 Fapstronaut

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    I been clean for more than a year hardmode and I dont see any of these amazing benefits or superpowers I thought this would be life changing I thought it would get a me a girlfriend I believed all these story's of nofap getting people way more attention from women getting all these benefits yet women are rejecting me more than ever before all this self improvement putting my self out there to go talk to girls while doing nofap has me made me extremely hateful because I'm not getting any results nofap is a scam and all these benefits are bullshit placebo effects you all know that deep down inside
     
  2. Hank Pym

    Hank Pym Fapstronaut

    So that radioactive spider did not bit you?
     
  3. MisterDirection

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    Doing NF for just getting girls is not much of a goal. I mean yes it is one. But you seem to have totally skipped the parts where you have altered your bad habbits and improved your life with respect to PMO. You have plenty of time for women. Continue to do the work on yourself. It's more important
     
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  4. Hros

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    Nofap isn't magic, man. You have to improve yourself to get things going for you in life. Congrats on being clean for over a year.
     
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  5. How did you make a year but joined in May?

    What did you spend a year doing ??

    If you only stop choking your chicken ... girls aren’t going to just line up because of that.

    Confidence is sexy. Abstinence is the same as a baby. Default mode.
     
  6. luwezzy2

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    I feel your frustration but carry on going luckily for me I have been on Nofap for 3 months and I managed to get myself a girlfriend so I think these things take time but carry on improving yourself and on way or another it will happen bro.
     
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  7. Why did you chose to stop pmo?

    And why shouldn't you go back to it?
     
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  8. Discouraged

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    yeah but you added 10 years to your life.

    when you fast you don't feel like you have super powers but your organs are at rest. asleep. storing up life.

    your body stores the power, it does not release it until summoned.

    what you have increased and stored up is your response-ability to stress. when stress comes, you can react to it. it will not drain you, it will wake you up and this activates your powers.

    for the person who faps, when that day of judgement comes, he will falter. he will succumb to death, when he must summon all his reserves to preserve his life, his strength will fail him. you on the other hand, will respond with a surge that transforms you.

    and in reality, death is also this same trauma, it will propel you to higher incarnation at death. but you do not exceed normal parameters simply because it's not really necessary.

    the craving for sex and women is psychological. women need to feel your love for them. they respond to the sex thing but in reality, that is a lower level vibration. once you have nofapped that long there will only be spiritual excitement. which is in fact, how a real man exists and mates. a real man is not looking for a one night stand, to impregnate a girl and leave his own daughter or son to a single mom he doesn't love. that is to sentence your own child to hell , do you understand?
    before your will was to send your own daughter to hell, as a bastard, unloved in a hostile world full of sexual monsters, predators, alone and unloved by even her own father. your old desires were totally sick and you were a monster.
     
  9. Ash266

    Ash266 Fapstronaut

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    I been clean for so long it would be tragic for me to go back but I'm still angry because my lack of results
     
  10. MuscularSherlockHolmes

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    Who sold you the idea that NoFap was magical and would take you to a land where unicorns will come out of clouds and take you to a place where you can have your own harem and live in paradise?
     
  11. Ash266

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    I read many posts how nofap gave people all types of benefits and superpowers and got them much more attention from women and thought it would be the same for me
     
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  12. bpboy1993

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    I think the best "super power" is the peace of mind that it brings and the fact we are no longer trapped in addiction, NoFap isn't about getting girls, but it does give us the ability to look ourselves in the mirror and be proud of who we are which people notice and in some cases its very attractive to women I guess, but that definitely isn't my goal
     
  13. Sorry bro, but i'm gonna have to say some hard truth to you, it may hurt but you gotta listen to it. This is to help you! You gotta be a troll, or just dumb. Its gotta be one of these two options. I believe you are both, a troll that never made it to at least your first 90 days and failed so many times and instead os trying it again you have to blame others for your own failures. Now let's suppose you actually did a year of hard mode. You obviously did something wrong. Do you actually believed in super powers? LOL, do you think you were gonna be like Bradley Cooper in the limitless or you will start flying like super man? lol. Bro you're a human being aren't you? You will have upside downs during your life no matter what happens. Nofap won't solve all your problems. Nofap is a lifestyle, it is about destroying your addictions and use the energy of semen retention to do something more productive. The more you can stay away from PMO the better you will feel and you will enjoy life and its simplest things more. Its a hard process and its different for every individual, what works for someone may not work for you, i just hit 112 days and i still know that i need more time. First of all if you did nofap to try to get girls you already failed. LOL you actually thought that doing nofap girls would come at you and offer themselves? Get the hell out of here. I don't know how you look like in real life, but you can do 10 years of nofap, if you don't move your lazy ass to be productive and make things happen NOBODY will notice you. Especially if you are a fat fuck or skiny ass lazy dude, so hit the gym, focus on your job, get some money, build your career, DO SOMETHING, nofap alone will never make miracles. Stop focusing on dumb things like super powers or getting bitches, and focus on improving yourself as a human being respecting the fact that you are a human being and you will have ''those'' days. Man the fuck up!
     
  14. Master Chips

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    Keep jerking off then, everyone is free to do whatever they believe is good for them.. There is no need to justify why Nofap is the only way to live as a natural normal peaceful human, because whoever faps knows inside himself that it is wrong, he feels the regret, sadness, weakness, then pain over pain until he wakes up on a disaster.
     
  15. Ash266

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    I actually have been improving in all aspects of my life and I exercise a lot with skateboarding my post must have triggered you I have been clean more than a year I have no reason to lie i think your angry because deep down inside your afraid that doing nofap will not bring you any results like in my case so your the idiot I'm done with this cult fuck you all
     
  16. Ash266

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    If you weren't a loser yourself you wouldn't be on this fourm
     
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  17. MuscularSherlockHolmes

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    Guys don't hate him! Even trolls deserve respect! lol, plus there is always a small chance of being in a bad mood while making a post.
     
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  18. Indurian

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    Hi,

    Well done getting to a year on hard mode, few manage that. Seriously, what percentage of guys your age with Internet do you think there are in world that have done what you have?

    Did you notice any benefits at all? Some don't realise how good they felt until back in the addiction.

    Have you been substituting porn for anything else? Food, drugs, alcohol etc?

    Look at how you have benefitted others. First you abstained for a year which showed others that it can be done. You set a good example for people here and also in your own life. You never fuelled demand for porn, which may have stopped even one girl entering into the industry. This person would likely have regretted it for life and gone through a horrible time in the process. If we were all like you then there would be no industry and no harm.

    Look up the PAWS threads. You will see people recovering but over the course of 2-3 years. I've been told by an alcoholic turned sponsor who said that you are probably looking at 3 years for the brain to really recover.

    Don't give up, you will turn a corner at some point
     
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  19. Ash266

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    Lol believe what you want just admit the real reason why your so upset because your afraid of not getting results the only failure on my part is believing all these false promises that nofap preaches people are right it is a cult full of bro science and bullshit
     
  20. Ash266

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    I avoid all p subs and I dont smoke or drink I exercise a lot with skateboarding and mostly eat healthy
     

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