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impotence caused by pornography / masturbation

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by Wojtek94, Mar 8, 2018.

  1. Wojtek94

    Wojtek94 Fapstronaut

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    Did anyone have the problem described above? When my erection finally appeared, my girlfriend could not lead me to an orgasm by hand. She tried a lot of times

    Its my first girlfriend , and i had this problem second year....
     
  2. Theultimatefighter_21

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    Yeah, for a porn addict, this is common but not okay. You should stop, really.
     
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    therapists argue that my problem lies in my psyche (I am physically healthy), but I have been treating myself for 2 years and I have been using various antidepressant and anxiolytic pills, and nothing helps. Thats why I trying another way to be normal
     
  4. Theultimatefighter_21

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    It isn't in your mind. Well, it is, but not from this view. As you know, porn makes you more and more numb to the real world, so that's maybe the answer. I really recommend you to stop and focus on your girlfriend, love her more than anything.
     
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  5. Wojtek94

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    thanks for your comment, i just trying to change myself for better
     
  6. GG2002

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    Yes and I was that girlfriend that could not bring my ex porn addict to orgasm. He used to have to shut his eyes and M over me to O, and let me tell you, it was HORRIBLE. What you have is called situational delayed ejaculation. My ex had trained himself to only O from porn, and his own hand. So you may also have some death grip. THat does not have to mean you are rough it just means that you have trained your body that it needs a certain type of stimulus and pressure to O. That stimulus does not mimic sex, a vagina or a woman’s hand. Ask your partner to grip your hand as tight as she can. I bet you will not even feel it. I only say that because I want you to see how your hand feels versus hers. The solution is to stop all PMO for 90 days. You will likely see some difference in a few weeks. The second thing is to tell your partner what you are dealing with. I know you don’t likely want to, but here’s the thing. If you do not give her an explanation for why you are having this issues, she is going to assume you are not attracted to her or that she is bad in bed, and she will leave you before you ever have a chance. And if she’s going to leave y ou because of this issue, then better to know that now. She can also help you with your recovery if she knows and you will feel more comfortable, less pressure, since she knows. Do not use your own hand at all during intercourse. Only touch yourself to clean and urinate, and have her be the sole source of your O. Good luck!
     

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