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Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by D . J ., Dec 23, 2016.
Thank you D.J. I've go a few ideas to put into place to help me out
My dear friend Mr D . J . you are absolutely right. We are all engaged as men in a war against the porn industry trying to eliminate the men's brain quality in the Western world. The centre of all this lies in the far East where the men sees it like tabou and refrain from it and protect their children too. Of course as an opposit reaction their urge to sex and prostitution is 100% more then here. This means that each of us must protect himself from FAP as from his most dengerous ennemy as if it was a personal devil urging us to reverse the good conduct we want to engage in. Even if we are no believers it may help sometimes to think that the devil who according to the Bible is up to destroy this humanity before its coming new make off is also busy with each man to destroy his brain through FAP as he holds in his hands everything which is bad and our loving God everything which is good. Amen.
Thanks a lot brother #30 is pure gold for whenever I feel tempted
Number 35 is a great advice. And not only for the stuff we are dealing with here. Anything in life.
Great! You know almost 5months ago i decided to stop my habit and went to gym. And i stopped the habit of masturbation for 3 months.. this was the first time in my life i passed 9days with no porn. And ovbiously my body was in great shape but one day a girl started sex chat with me, i couldnt control myself and i masturbated, i was sooooo angry that i had wasted my 90days for a temporary pleasure. :'( now im afraid that i shall do same mistake again. Seriously
Hi Guy's! I do not know if there are people among you who believes in God but I do, and He finaly answered my prayers, saw my many tears, listened to my endless lamentations and after I finished writing my latest Post to all of you, I phoned my girlfriend and she asked me for the keys of my houses and I refused it formally and firmly and our very absurde relation came at once and all to an end, freeing me from all my troubles in one go, unbelievable but true, and all this happenings on the 90's birthday of my beloved mother (today) who is still alive and never liked that idiotical sexmaniac.... BLESS THE LORD! Halleluja!!! Halleluja!!!
My Dear Friend shut your ears the next time and as D. J. says so wisely, run in the opposit direction to save YOUR LIFE!!!! Good luck, nothing is lost you are still alive, and you must have learned your lesson now...
Yes! Thats enought now im not going to feed devil inside me
My Dear Friend, nobody has a devil inside him or her it is not right to give the reason to a devil (I know what you meen by using this expression) although he well exists he can do nothing to you if you stay strong in yourself and never give in TO YOUR OWN DESIRES AND SEXUAL WISHES...There will be always hurdels to get around as long as we are born with this thing between our legs but the most important is to accept that we may make mistakes (we are humans) and that there is always a way back (there is even a chapter in the Bible explaining that God will never blame us for our sins, which are normal in His eyes but gets annoyed if we go on repeating them and do not learn from them). So I shall say now that you are all strong and back to your starting blocks I will suggest you to go to the same gym, sit next to the same girl (without shaking too much) and when she will attack you again (oh she will) not have an arrousal bit change the conversation and see her not "an object of desire" who came right out of your TV screen where you watched porn long time ago but as a person who has interest in you...if you can handle this, I am sure you can, you are not a teenager, you will be such a strong man that you will never ever think to things like porn or fap the rest of your life, I am sure. I wish you good luck... God will be next to you, not the devil because your intentions are GOOD.
Oh wow, you nicely explained it. I enjoyed reading it. Do you have any AP or any group of AP? If yes, then Me and my fapastronaut friend would love to join it.
This is a great post. I hated to read it, because it's difficult to admit that I was cheating on my sobriety a little bit (There were days when I still edged, thought about old fantasies, and looked at suggestive non-P pictures, but I still counted them as "no PMO" days because I didn't go all the way to porn sites nor masturbated to orgasm.)
I have reset the count of days on my journal appropriately. Brutal honesty is what kicking this addiction will take, right?
This is amazing, I will read this one often. Thank you so much.
This is a real treasure trove!
Thanks for this amazing little bible of NoFap!
Sadly, I didn't notice back when I was having my best streak..
"Similarly, don't decide to "watch P to see if you are still affected by it! If you have been watching P for a year... 5 years... 10, 20. 30 years, what makes you think being sober for a week to 6 months is going to override all of the years you've been watching P. Think about it!"
This is exactly how my streak ended...
Thankyous for the post, I read all and took notes, I hope help me with my addiction. Regards
Highlighting point 47 of this thread; the REWARD pathways in the brain works wonders....One way to do it is to make 90 boxes on White board or Paper(paste it on wall) then what u do is tick a box after 24 hrs tick another after 48 hrs and give urself a reward say after 100 hours! Reward may be your favorite food, movies, sport or anything.. and move on see if it help thanks alot ...
This is a great post, DJ - thank you for compiling this list. Reading this post puts my thoughts and goals back into focus and reminds me of upcoming challenges that I lost sight of (or wasn't aware of). I'm just starting Day #23 of a Hard90 reboot and I really can't think of a better way to start this - and EVERY - day! Thanks again!