`In Case You Didn't Know...

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by D . J ., Dec 23, 2016.

  1. Furiosa

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    Thanks.
     
  2. Empress Sombra

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    What an amazing post bookmarked for studying :)!
     
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  3. @Joanankor and anybody else:
    Link to Spirituality and Religion groups
    https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?groups/categories/spirituality-and-religion.3/

    @NoMoreFap2012 and others:
    Accountability Partners
    https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?forums/accountability-partners.7/

    You can also join the official NoFap accountability partner groups for a subscription. A lot of cool extra features: https://www.nofap.com/nofap-premium/
    If you want those cool stickers by your name so people know you a BAMF, then here's how to get them.
    There's a sale right now where you only have to pay $10/mo, so now is the time. THIS IS NOT A DRILL.

    Welcome to NoFap!
     
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  5. Celibate678

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    Thanks so much, a lot of points were very valuable not only in general but concerning points in currently struggling with. This post saved me a lot of daily frustration.
     
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  6. Spirit11

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    I'm just starting but have a dumb question. I have a girlfriend can I do this and still continue to have sex with her? Or is that "cheating"?
     
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  7. TeeMari15

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    That was a really solid article thanks for the advice.
     
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  8. D . J .

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    That's not a dumb question at all.
    There are two main paths people take: hard mode and easy mode. Those who take hard mode, deny any sex at all. Those who take easy mode choose to limit sexual activity only to sex with spouse or significant other.
     
  9. Joanankor

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    Many, many thanks indeed ... If you are a Christian my Dear Friend, You ARE already a Christian and never a "Hopeful-Christian".... Could you please explain me why you have chosen this pseudonym ?... I am asking this because being a Christian and being a member of NoFap community are to a given extend two different things. You may be a non-Christian and not a member and be a Christian and well a member and also completely vice-versa too... As an old member of this community you should be able to give an answer to this question, maybe helping by doing this, also yourself out of any problems inherent with these two subjects... God bless.
     
  10. Uh, I didn't catch all that but yes I am a Christian member here. My former username was FlawedChristian because I wanted to acknowledge my brokenness and that's why I need Jesus Christ. I changed my username because I wanted to acknowledge that although I am an imperfect Christian, I have the love of God and have hope that I can overcome any shortcomings and that more of the world can be saved by my example
     
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  11. Joanankor

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    Many thanks for your brilliant answer, I believe that you were never left alone by Christ as none of this world's inhabitants have ever been. It is them who shut their curtains to His brilliant Light trying to illuminate their souls... So do never be afraid my Sister, there is NO "imperfect Christian" as the love of God solely makes us good Believers, and this is enough for being saved if this love is reciprocal. You have already saved one person a lot by your answer...myself. God bless.
     
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  12. Joanankor

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    I like your answer Sir. But could you not make it more clear by saying that "Those who are married could rather take the easy mode and limit their sexual activity rather with their spouses then the ones who unfortunately, do not have such an opportunity ..." which is a long sentence but for my liking enlightens the material more deeply... by separating the two groups of men living on this planet ± normally.
     
  13. D . J .

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    Why did I need to say that when you did? I did not say married because not everyone here who are having sex are married.
     
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  14. Thank you. But I disagree with part of your response. You may message me to continue this conversation outside of this thread, otherwise enjoy the rest of your night :)
     
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  15. Deadlihood

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    What the hell's a BAMF?
     
  16. Deadlihood

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    It's only cheating if your wife finds out! HAH!

    @Thug Life, play me off, Johnny!
     
  17. samuel tomiwa

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    This is really helpful to me. Thank you D.J for this compilation. I see myself unfolding in fulfilling way. NoFap Again.
     
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    D.J., what a spectacular post! I can relate to it so well, and will most assuredly come back to this when I need to. Thanks so much.

    Charlie
     
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  19. myownlanguage

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    O my god I'm a woman and I always masturbate on my stomach when I don't watch porn. No wonder I have sexual problems :( I'm so glad I found this site and all the information it provides. Gives me hope!
     
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