In serious need of help...I’m new

Discussion in 'Abstinence, Retention, and Sexual Transmutation' started by Fjremy24, Jul 8, 2018.

  1. Fjremy24

    Fjremy24 Fapstronaut

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    Hi! I’m new to Nofap! I’m a believer and I think that the benefits to Nofap are monumental. I’m currently at day 7 at the moment with a few concerns. I could probably go at this for a while, but the aggrevating part is what my body I think just did. I’ve had a strong sex drive all this time with urges of course and I actually don’t have a problem resisting them. I’d like to think I have some form of will power but it hasn’t been too hard as of yet really. But this morning I woke up with a huge boner and I decided to go pee. Well the boner went down slightly right before urination, but then my urine was abnormally longer than usual and it seemed cloudy. And I noticed that my testicles (which had been large the day before) had shrunk slightly and were harder as opposed to more loose? Something else that through me off is that my voice was very deep between day 3-6 and now it’s higher. What just happened? Did I just lose Semen? Should I start the count again? I mean it’s a concerning considering that, yes, I’m obviously doing this for the positive lifestyle change that I can already see. But I’m afraid that I’m over here thinking that I’m 1 week in when I really just relapsed without knowing. One thing worth mentioning is that I’m a believer in the positive effects of semen retention so that also has me worried. What should I do? I feel like restarting the counter because if I lost semen then I might as well.
     
  2. Jonny123

    Jonny123 Fapstronaut

    Hi there - you are very welcome.
    Don't worry - what probably happened is that a little semen has found its way into your bladder and has made the urine a little cloudy.
    The main things to concentrate are:
    No Porn - of any kind including entertaining flashbacks of things you have seen or using substitutes for porn
    No Masturbation - absolutely no touching, or let you penis rub against clothing or the bed to arouse you
    No Orgasm - that is for when you are married only
    Sorry if I speak a little plainly - but I think it helps to be clear.

    In terms of coping with a boner - they are natural. Just do not encourage them. I find it helpful to lie in bed with my arms folded across my upper chest. It is now a habit and keeps me from touching. If I get a bone I lie on my side to prevent any friction with bed clothes etc and if necessary I will remove my shorts if the tenting effect is causing pleasure. Testicle size does change with stimulation - nothing to be worried about - good luck!
     
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  3. Fjremy24

    Fjremy24 Fapstronaut

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    Well, I guess what I’m asking is for more of an experience story. Like has this happened to anyone? Will my voice return? Or will it return in another like 3-4 days? I get that semen has made its way to my bladder but does that count as a relapse? I’m not too concerned about the effects of porn persa. Yes, I would watch porn constantly...but at this moment it doesn’t seem to have a hold on me. I would just like to know if it would be more beneficial to masturbate or not at this point?
     
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  4. 2dayz_iz_2long

    2dayz_iz_2long Fapstronaut

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    I wouldn't worry bro. You didn't spank the monkey so you doing good :) welcome. I'm new too, just under two weeks and I was having cravings to pound the old bun bout 10 minutes ago, so I just hopped onto nofap and say hello to someone lol. Hope your having a good day brother. Chat ya later :)
     
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  5. Jonny123

    Jonny123 Fapstronaut

    Semen coming from your bladder does not count (it is a very small amount anyway) Nor do wet dreams - you have no control over them.
    you definitely should NOT masturbate! Why would you do that?
     
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  6. jedimaster

    jedimaster Fapstronaut

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    just keep your self motivated
     
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  7. Fjremy24

    Fjremy24 Fapstronaut

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    So it’s usually only a small amount? Ok, I didn’t know that. That’s good!
     
  8. Fjremy24

    Fjremy24 Fapstronaut

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    Thanks a lot buddy. I’m glad to be here! Thank you for the kind words and I hope you keep on strong! :) I’ll catch you later!
     
  9. Jonny123

    Jonny123 Fapstronaut

    Hey - you cant prevent it anyway so dont stress. Put all your effort into avoiding porn and masturbation
     
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